Dominance

Wodan

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What should you do if a girl is very socially intelligent and tries to be dominant on a date? I can tell its not good, i dont like it, but i dont know a way 2 turn it around or kill it withought spoiling the mood, any advice on things to say or do will be much appreciated :)
 

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I say pick your battles. Maybe she has ocd or something. The whole date thing is just a pre-fvck ritual anyway. If she wants to think she is bossing you around, let her. Then her defenses will be down later. Follow her back into her place, then push her up against a wall and start making out with her. Then who is dominating whom?
 

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She's not really that type of girl, makes a man wait then goes into a relationship, I would do that normally though, im wondering if there are subtle ways 2 reverse the roll that more experienced guys are probably aware of
 

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She's not really that type of girl, makes a man wait then goes into a relationship,

That's her frame. Are you going to accept it, or set your own? I bet some other guy has had sex with her w/o a relationship. That means you can, too.
 

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Maybe you can hot/cold her... I mean set up a date to your preferences and if she declines then decline the invite to her and say your going out to have fun then. I would try to not be to torn up about her being dominate just relax and stay cool she might be throwing you a sh1t test who knows but IF she starts to contradict what you say or maybe you picked something to do with each other and she picks something else or say's some crap about how you have bad taste then you should really think about nexting her there and now or stand by your decision and if she still doesnt want to do it then next her....she will see that it's your way or the highway and she will have a lot more respect if given those 2 decisions.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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