Dominance in bed, need tips

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So Ive been told Im not dominant enough in the bedroom by this one girl I'm talking too. She is super dominant herself in everyday life, but looks like she wants to be the sub behind closed doors. Not really looking for super kinky, s&m type stuff but more of a take control thing I guess. Anyone have any tips or ideas/experience with this? Ive never had this complaint before...
 

Isko

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If I were you, I'd try to look at her like a sex slave and use her as one. Be more sexually assertive. There's the physical stuff, like pinning her down, growling, etc., but the mindset is what's important.

Stop worrying about what's going on in her head, and just start doing WHATEVER feels good to you.
 

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Lol thanks for the reply. Doing what I want is what I have been doing, guess maybe Ive been lazy with this one...
 

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Brighty said:
I'm talking about talking dirty (REALLY talking dirty, the rush that you get in your stomach when you make a nice, polite girl tell you how much she loves getting ****ed by you is ****ing indescribable), pulling on her hair, watching her twist and moan as you slowly plant your lips on every part of her as you work your way around her body, seeing her eyes widen and roll back as you thrust in while you hold her tight, smacking her ass and feeling her shudder, whispering in her ear asking her about her fantasies (one of the girls wanted to be ****ed while wearing a cooking apron) and seeing the look of pure sexual delight on her face when you oblige her fantasies...
Here, I posted this earlier today. Hopefully you can take some tips on how to be dominant. Call her a slvt. Put your hands on her in a dominant way (one hand lightly but firmly around her throat like you could choke them at any moment sometimes REALLY sets them off). Smack her ass. Throw her around. Whisper filthy sh*t in her ear.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I DO initiate different positions, smack asses, talk a little ****... guess this one just wants to turn it up.. Im up for the challenge, pun intended lol
 

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