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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
 

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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
The answer to this question, if reflected on, will possibly reveal holes in your personality that
long to be filled.

It can often be more productive and fulfilling to carry out this garden work oneself. Rather than
recruit an external gardner who may leave without giving appropriate notice.
 

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Dating her now, been ****ing her too.

Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
 

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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
my own personal opinions aside...

It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?

All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.

Is it just shallow labels, or something else?

Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
 

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my own personal opinions aside...

It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?

All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.

Is it just shallow labels, or something else?

Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
It's all fun and games until the girl starts withholding sex, demanding more date nights, playing mind games, and much more.
 

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my own personal opinions aside...

It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?

All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.

Is it just shallow labels, or something else?

Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
Id like to get married someday.

Many guys on here don't agree with that which is fine.

Only way for me to do that is LTR's.
 

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It's all fun and games until the girl starts withholding sex, demanding more date nights, playing mind games, and much more.
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This is one of the reasons I actually love this fourm.

Great place for men who are looking to improve themselves can come and have their belives challenged
You know it!!!
 

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the OP is not in a "Western culture", you can tell this from the first post.
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.

did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
 

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Id like to get married someday.

Many guys on here don't agree with that which is fine.

Only way for me to do that is LTR's.
So you want enter a LTR with a woman that you didn't even know on New Year's Day. Fascinating. Do you even know the qualities you want in a woman to even consider entering into a LTR with her, and more importantly, why should a woman want to enter into a long term relationship with you?
 
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the OP is not in a "Western culture", you can tell this from the first post.
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.

did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
I did notice he was 19
 

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So you want enter a LTR with a woman that you didn't even know on New Year's Day. Fascinating. Do you even know the qualities you want in a woman to even consider entering into a LTR with her, and more importantly, why should a woman want to enter into a long term relationship with you?
He just wants sex and doesnt realize it. Everybody has brainwashed him to thinking he needs to hang with this chick to get sex and a relationship. Hes not even thinking about her qualities except that shes hot and "maybe" nice and getting attention. Daily texting and talking has sunk your battleship. You're an emotional tampon at the moment. She wants to have sex and talks about it, but doesn't tell you to come over??
 
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