Does your car matter? Especially when you're close to your 30's?

[Glassguy]

No, he's just bragging on a bunch of random people on the Internet, and pretty much saying all of that and money, can't get a chick cause he's not attractive and girls be using him as beta bucks

You clearly missed my point. Aren't you the guy that was called out for lying and claimed to be leaving the board? Or was that someone else?

And I still have chicks btw. It's just that a lot want a fixer upper, like I said before.

 

[Glassguy]

That's was our Lord Savior @RazorRambo24 and be respectful to him.

Gotcha

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Gotcha

Is cool bro, I'm the broke guy who steals your women. Your point is valid.

Guys like me are nightmare fuel for guys like you.

We're like cats, we do it because we're a$$holes. We bag your daughters in your Audi while they're wearing your wife's lingerie and then we eat all the food in your fridge and p1nch one off in your executive toilet. Been there done that, got your t-shirt to match.

At one point Daddy tried to persuade daughter with a lot of money and a suitor that owned a yacht and half the business in the Puerto Vallarta mall. She chose to get her back blown out by a guy that lived in a dingy motel room and took the public 'limo' to the beach on weekends. Your problem is you're BORING.

[Not my wife btw]

Pics or it didn't happen.

 

[Slowhandluke]

I only drive the biggest piece of junk I can find. People don't steal or break into pieces of crap. I also park beside the nicest car in the lot.

People also don't hijack pieces of crap. That is why I drive a beatup prius. No gang member has ever said, "lets go joy riding in that red prius. We can roll down the window and pump the music up"...

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

She looks like she likes to swallow, am I wrong?

Its a latina thing.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Dont be like me with a new truck, Audi, boat, paid off house and other properties and make good money. God forbid you have a stable and drama free life and solid hobbies.

If that's all you got, she'll probably see you as a good little provider. I'm not saying that to diss you, but guys who try to bait women with luxury items get primadonnas and princesses. If that's what you want, carry on.

If you don't want that, tune down on the angst that a woman might consider you a loser, and become more interesting.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

She looks like she likes to swallow, am I wrong?

I hope her father never sees this, but just to leave him a little reminder of the way he treated me, I bought the junior miss a super soaker and had a massive water fight in his private gallery. I was on a plane home when he found out.

 

[The Duke]

I only drive the biggest piece of junk I can find. People don't steal or break into pieces of crap. I also park beside the nicest car in the lot.

I've had that happen to me, and I always park far away from everyone else. Ever had your tires flattened? lol

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

I've had that happen to me, and I always park far away from everyone else. Ever had your tires flattened? lol

On my car you wouldn't be able to tell.

 

[The Duke]

It all depends on what the girl is into. Some like boats, motorcycles, lifted trucks, fast cars. I've experienced it all. In the end I think they like the added attention and being seen with you in the above mentioned "things" that increases their status. All women like nice things regardless.

It needs to fit your personality whatever it is. Women are really good at sniffing out incongruency.

None of those things will make up for a lack of skills unless you want gold digging hoes.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It needs to fit your personality whatever it is. Women are really good at sniffing out incongruency.

I recently chatted with a guy who was thinking about taking up motorcycling to impress girls, but he was worried about the likelihood of falling, et cetera... I told him to take up motorcycling only if he liked riding motorcycles, not for any other reason.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Right, even if you do attract a woman by a high status car, when she realizes thats all you got, she is not staying long term either

What poor guy has a high status car? No, I’m not talking about Joseph renting one out for a weekend or driving a 10 plus year old luxury car.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Chicks will repel from you unless your somewhat a broken project for them to fix.

You're not wrong.
When I was younger, I was a "trouble man" and I had to reject a lot of women who just wanted to save/rescue/repair me, but I'm not a project.
Now that I'm an older, more mature version of what I used to be, women seem to like that I saved/rescued/repaired myself.

 

[jaygreenb]

What poor guy has a high status car? No, I’m not talking about Joseph renting one out for a weekend or driving a 10 plus year old luxury car.

Don't think I ever said poor but plenty own them who can not reasonably afford them and people would assume they are a lot wealthier than they are

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Women will repel a guy with no boundaries, no self respect, puts up with $hit from her, chases like a puppy when rejected, a guy who is afraid of walking away, that thinking of "oh be a broken man so girls will like you" man shut the fvck up with that binary thinking (not you directly, but in general with men with that thinking)

I know what you mean. These guys are looking for a 'mother'.

When I left home at 17 I came from a dark place of childhood abuse and an aborted suicide attempt, but I wasn't 'broken' nor was I interested in becoming someone's 'project'. I worked on improving myself and some women I dated wanted to make themselves a crucial part of that process by implying I needed their help, but I refused their help and went my own way.

Guys who enjoy getting fixed by women are incapable of fixing themselves and they tend to drag down any good woman trying to help them. Most women know this and they're not really interested, but they do want to be influential in a man's life.

The way I deal with that desire to influence my life is by allowing them to exert some influence but not too much.

Like one of my kittens is a Hungarian chef de cuisine and she likes to cook for me, but my kitchen was not up to her professional standards, so she rearranged my kitchen, bought two iron skillets and taught me how to maintain them. She derives a lot of pleasure from 'taking care of me', but she also sees it as 'doing something back' since I got her to move to vaping cannabis from smoking joints that messed up her lungs. And she can be shameless with me and explore a new side to her sexuality that she wasn't aware of.

It's a balancing act. You want to maintain control while also give them a sense of being useful beyond the bedroom.

 

[Bokanovsky]

At one point Daddy tried to persuade daughter with a lot of money and a suitor that owned a yacht and half the business in the Puerto Vallarta mall. She chose to get her back blown out by a guy that lived in a dingy motel room and took the public 'limo' to the beach on weekends.

A month later, the guy's lifeless body washed up on the beach and the cops (assuming they even respond to stuff like this in Puerto Vallarta) wrote it off as an "accidental drowning".

 

[CornbreadFed]

Don't think I ever said poor but plenty own them who can not reasonably afford them and people would assume they are a lot wealthier than they are

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I think you are referring to the slum dog Jeffrey's that are the 5th owner of a used Mercedes or BMW from a drive away lot using it to impress hood rats. Otherwise, a normal expensive vehicle driver has a decent job/business and the skillsets to bounce back if they were to even temporarily lose their income.

 

[jaygreenb]

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I think you are referring to the slum dog Jeffrey's that are the 5th owner of a used Mercedes or BMW from a drive away lot using it to impress hood rats. Otherwise, a normal expensive vehicle driver has a decent job/business and the skillsets to bounce back if they were to even temporarily lose their income.

I was referring to the person starting the thread. If you are initially attracting someone with a high status car, 80k+, and that is important to them past early 20s. Most likely they will expect the lifestyle with that. When they realize you can not provide that, most likely they are not sticking around. Point being, do not lead with your wallet especially if you do not have the funds. Present who you are authentically are and that will weed out some of the riff raff

 

[CornbreadFed]

I was referring to the person starting the thread. If you are initially attracting someone with a high status car, 80k+, and that is important to them past early 20s. Most likely they will expect the lifestyle with that. When they realize you can not provide that, most likely they are not sticking around. Point being, do not lead with your wallet especially if you do not have the funds. Present who you are authentically are and that will weed out some of the riff raff

I know what you mean, but frauds aren't driving 80k plus cars. Even if you are pulling a Fresh and Fit with the luxury cars, they aren't financially disadvantaged. A guy working at Mcdonalds as a shift leader isn't driving a Royce and frauding on the side. He might have a high interest loan on a high mileage C-class Benz, but who is that really going to impress though?

Okay Fresh might be screwed, but Myron is more than likely okay due to his degree and talent.

 

[Kotaix]

Cars, and almost every other product, are made to cater to women. You've just discovered that SUVs push a woman's buttons.

First off, they're practical and can haul all the baby crap. Secondly, they're safer than cars just because of more mass. But I've rarely met a woman who had practical matters in mind when considering buying a car.

Thirdly, SUVs are in demand and considered trendy. Ford stopped producing cheap cars to focus on SUVs because they are what sells. This is probably why the woman was suddenly interested.