Does treating girls like shyt really only work with those who are unstable?

[jbbrain]

Im extrmely curious as to what u guys think!

Do you think, if there is such thing, that a STABLE(not jealous, not an attention *****, not insecure, moral, trsutworthy etc etc..thuink about more good qualities for a woman) woman will always put up you being an azzhole towards them?

Now, considering that most women are in fact UNSTABLE (exhibiting many of the characteristics I outline above) do we encourage being jerks (or at least using many of the "qualities" of the jerk) to women in general because they appear to be the rule, rather than the exception?

Will a healthy, secure, and in general happy woman allow themselves to eb subjugated to erratic, selfish and overall "jerkish" behaviour on your part in an LTR?

Should this behaviour be used universally for every type of woman or really only on the ones who crave it (assuming that only the ones with problems like to be somewhat abused) ?

 

[iqqi]

why would you want to be a jerk? why can't you just be a ****y, self-assured man?

 

[ShortyBrown]

a STABLE woman will always put up you being an azzhole towards them?

A smart, stable woman will recognise this kind of behaviour, and tell you either:

A)You're acting like a prick. But I like you anyway, so shape up or I'm gone.
B)You're acting like a prick. I have no time for this bullish. Bye.

Will a healthy, secure, and in general happy woman allow themselves to eb subjugated to erratic, selfish and overall "jerkish" behaviour on your part in an LTR?

Healthy, secure women have self respect. These women wouldn't put up with ****ty behaviour.
Then again, the context of your actions can come into play as well....done without malice, I'd personally let the odd selfish act slide once or twice.

 

[jbbrain]

Originally posted by iqqi
why would you want to be a jerk? why can't you just be a ****y, self-assured man?

You can be. But some girls, and Im sorry to say, sometimes crave being dominated and even disrespected.

Irts not something I like to do, but I have been the true azzhole to women before (just bexcause i didnt respect them) and they ate it up completely.

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by jbbrain
You can be. But some girls, and Im sorry to say, sometimes crave being dominated and even disrespected.

well then, fine azz jb (BTW), you must ask yourself if this is the kind of woman you want.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Iqqi girl you're lookin at this from a point of stickin' up for the sisterhood. There are some phucked up chicks out there, who dig the kind of crap that JB is on about.

 

[jbbrain]

but I think that most women are like that. Its like Ive been conditioned to think that that is what women want. Maybe not the whole deal..who knows.

The reaon i ask is because Ive recently started dating this girl who is so NICE and stable, and honest and secure (from what I know) but I still find myself hesistant to become really comfortable with her.

PS-Thanks baby (how did u even remember?), wheres your picture?

 

[ShortyBrown]

Give it time. Have fun, don't worry all this bulls-hit and cross the bridge of Crazy Woman Canyon when (if) you ever get to it.

 

[iqqi]

trust me shortyb, i am not sticking up for sisterhood. really, why would anyone want someone who demands an unhealthy relationship? that is a question to think about.

i'll also put it another way for ya JB. there is a parellel woman universe of techniques and ect. these books/websites ect. teach women to be bithces, and heartless too. and guess what? many many men eat this up for various (unhealthy) reasons. a friends mom even told me when i was 16 that if i told my man he wasn't sh!t he'd be wrapped around my finger.

two questions ferya:
1. would you put up with b!tchy behaviour that was disrespectful and demeaning?
2. do you think i would want a man that would put up with that? what would that say about him?

think about it, (record scratching), you'll get it...

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by iqqi
trust me shortyb, i am not sticking up for sisterhood. really, why would anyone want someone who demands an unhealthy relationship? that is a question to think about.

i'll also put it another way for ya JB. there is a parellel woman universe of techniques and ect. these books/websites ect. teach women to be bithces, and heartless too. and guess what? many many men eat this up for various (unhealthy) reasons. a friends mom even told me when i was 16 that if i told my man he wasn't sh!t he'd be wrapped around my finger.

two questions ferya:
1. would you put up with b!tchy behaviour that was disrespectful and demeaning?
2. do you think i would want a man that would put up with that? what would that say about him?

think about it, (record scratching), you'll get it...

LOL@the "he aint s-hit" thing.....I love that. There are lots of phuck ups in this world, take people as they come that's my motto.