bukowski_merit said:
Is this your own personal feelings about if you FEEL disrespected? Or is it when other (normally bitter) forum posters tell you SHOULD FEEL disrespected?
If it's the later - then yeah, you better find a woman who doesn't breathe because there's guys on this board who will swear that a woman breathing is disrespect.
And listening to them will result in all kind of paranoia, analyzing, and theorizing.
When all along you could have just been having fun, unaware of the poison so you can enjoy sipping it.
So you regret swallowing the red pill and would rather be living in ignorance about women? Don't you think that's a cop out? Do you believe that guys who are plugged into the matrix and "unaware of the poison", are experiencing more fun and joy than us unplugged guys?
To a certain extent, that idea holds true... All of us are already unplugged and can't really forget all we've learned since then, it's kinda fascinating to wonder about the value of being ignorant regarding women, dating, love etc. For example, if you didn't know about the nature of women and hypergamy, you wouldn't worry about the chances of your girl fvcking someone behind your back...
You'd just think:
"Nah, she truly loves me, she said so herself, thus she would never cheat on me" And you'd truly believe that! So you would truly be living in the assumption that you are the only one for your girl and thus be feeling on top of the world. Your girl could be fvcking some other dude behind your back, but you would never know it coz you would never even hold it POSSIBLE and would not be able to recognize any signs of it.
So despite reality (her fvckin another guy behind your back), you would be perfectly happy and beiieve your life to be wonderful...because you're ignorant of the truth, and that ignorance brings you bliss...
A guy could be living the happiest life ever, being the beta provider for his woman and believing he is the only one for her. The fact that she is fvckin bad boys behind his back is not a bad thing to him, AS LONG AS HE IS UNAWARE OF IT.
Imagine you're dreaming a wonderful dream, one where your life is perfect... Well, as long as no one wakes you up out of that dream, wouldn't you prefer staying in that dream? The moment you wake up and the dream ends, is when you feel sad, because the waking up makes you realize that it was all just a dream... So why would you want to be awakened from that dream? The fact that it isn't real doesn't matter UNTIL THE MOMENT YOU REALIZE THAT IT'S NOT REAL.
When you're oblivious to the truth, you cannot be harmed by it, your ignorance causes you bliss...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7BuQFUhsRM
Not saying I regret taking the blue pill but I do find this idea fascinating... The more I think about life and all that is a part of it, the more I start valuing the whole "doublethink" concept. If you are able to forget unpleasant truths, while still being able to remember them briefly when the situation demands it (but immediately forgetting them again afterwards), your life will be a lot more pleasant, you know?
Same thing goes for your conscience... When you forget about the fact that what you're doing is "wrong", life presents a lot more opportunities to you. Doing "bad" things often pays off in life.
I had another thought along that line, this week... We're all looking for a girl who's a gem, one that is a good girl, faithful and caring, but also hot and sexy. But mostly, the good girls are not hot and sexy and they are a bit lower on the looks, but the hot and sexy HB9's are always arrogant, unfaithful cvnts... So why don't you just find yourself a good girl and marry her, then go ahead and keep fvcking lots of hot and sexy bytches?
It's the same thing women do! They find a beta provider to marry and all the while keep fvcking bad boys left and right... They get the best of both worlds, they get all they want from men, just not unified in ONE man. But we can do the same, you know? Find a good girl to marry, who loves and supports you throughout life, who gives you a happy 'family life', and keep fvcking hot slvts behind her back, to fulfill that need.
Yeah, you'd become the very thing that you always condemn women for. So what? What the fvck do you care? You only condemn them for it because they harm you with that behavior. That dpoesn't make their behavior bad in itself, you know... Harmful behavior is only "bad" when you are the one being harmed by it. But when you are the one DOING the harm, then the behavior is not so bad, is it? Sure, from a neutral viewpoint, it might be. But fvck that, you are not neutral, you are you and you live for yourself, right? So when your behavior results in good things for yourself, then it is good for you. You don't have to do what is "good" according to the rest of the world, you should do what is good for YOU! You don't live to please the rest of the world, do you? No, you live for yourself! So again, whatever behavior brings you good things, is good behavior, even if it is morally objectionable. Who cares about morals? You should just care about your own happiness...
I am coming to believe that a man's conscience is only an obstacle... It's something that we have been conditioned to follow, it's just a remnant of our upbringing. Mommy and daddy punished you when you didn't do as they pleased, and they rewarded you when you did as they pleased. That's how your conscience was formed... Why should we be chained and limited by such a mechanism? Why shouldn't we get rid of this limiting mechanism now that we are grown up and free from the domination by our parents? We don't have to follow their rules anymore and are free to decide for ourselves what is good or bad.
The only problem is that something that has been ingrained in our personality so deep, is hard to undo. When you do something "bad", you feel guilty about it and it makes you feel bad. It's an automatic reaction, it's a reaction that has been condtitioned, just like Pavlov's dogs who had been conditioned to start drooling from the sound of a ringing bell. It's very hard to reverse that process when it has been ingrained for years, from your early youth. But I'm slowly learning to do just that...
Backwards rationalizing bad actions, backwards rationalizing unpleasant truths...all of that allows you to live a more happy life, as long as you are able to succesfully circumvent your conscience and able to succesfully forget certain truths. This is something which I cannot deny anymore...I know it to be true, I can't close my eyes for it. And therefor, I can't help myself from slowly embracing it and acting on it...
Am I the only one?
