Does the good physique help us to attract women?

RRRR9999

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Do women really attract the men who are having good physique.??
 

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I see it this way, if you dont have the abs and the pecs you wont get marked down. But if you do have them you can get marked up, it helps but its not the be all and end all. Even though I have nagged free stuff by showing my stomach ;)
 

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Since I've become muscular, attraction from girls has increased SIGNIFICANTLY.
 

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RRRR9999 said:
@Die Hard
thnx :) I will go to gym then :)
Get in shape for yourself, not for women. Do it because it's the healthy thing to do. If you simply do it for aesthetics, you probably won't get proper workouts, or be as consistent (meaning, stopping just because you start getting some girls).

Let women be a side effect of your improved health/physical well-being.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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some women could care less if a guy has abs and huge muscles. infact the clubs and stuff I go to the steroids guys do not get too much love. I am in shape but I do not even have a flat stomach or abs. but I am in shape and athletic.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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thedude4242 said:
I am in shape but I do not even have a flat stomach or abs.
That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
 

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I think if you have a good body, muscles etc, it helps women rationalise why they feel attracted to u. They're prob attracted to you coz of ur game/personality/confidence, but they don't know that, they'll think its coz ur good looking etc
 

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bigneil said:
That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
That only counts for women.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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bigneil said:
That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
Depends on your definition of "in shape", but a person can be healthy without having a completely flat stomach.

Also, care to elabaroate on why abdominal fat is apparently the worst kind? I don't see anything special about it
 

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I used to be skinny, then I got muscular, now I have a beer gut.

I didn't feel like going back to the gym, so I got GLUTTONY tattooed on my gut.

Don't get as many girls as when I was in shape, but still get way more than when I was skinny.
 

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Almost all of the guys I know that have a ripped physique are terrible with women. I know one bodybuilder who enters in local competitions all the time and usually wins, yet he doesn't pull in hotties. He's one of the most insecure people I know. Another guy I went to high school with. He was real skinny, then starting going to the gym for 3 years straight. He's got a nice 6 pack, decent sized arms, etc. His skills are the same as they were before he started lifting.

The one thing that those two guys have in common, along with pretty much every other guy that lives in the gym, is that they're incredibly insecure and are trying to compensate. They're in the same situation as the guys in this forum that frequent the gym. Either they're extremely skinny, short, or ignored by girls in their life. The first thing they think is "I gotta get ripped." They can't even open their mouths to talk to a girl, yet they think pumping iron is going to solve their problems... and of course it doesn't.

90% of the hot girls I see are with skinny guys that have a good-looking face.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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