Get in shape for yourself, not for women. Do it because it's the healthy thing to do. If you simply do it for aesthetics, you probably won't get proper workouts, or be as consistent (meaning, stopping just because you start getting some girls).RRRR9999 said:@Die Hard
thnx I will go to gym then
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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Frightening pattern here, lately.Iceberg said:Feeding the troll
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.thedude4242 said:I am in shape but I do not even have a flat stomach or abs.
That only counts for women.bigneil said:That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
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Depends on your definition of "in shape", but a person can be healthy without having a completely flat stomach.bigneil said:That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
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