Can't change a tiger's stripes. AWALT.
The blame falls entirely on men's shoulders. MEN have stood up to far more (openly) oppressive movements (Nazism, Communism etc.), and perhaps therein lies the crux of the matter - not human organisms with an organ called the penis dangling between their legs, but MEN, MEN decided "enough of this sh1t" and set out to fight back, risking life and limb in the process. "Jesus Christ, men seriously were a bunch of beta fagg0t-@ss pvssies in those days", a fledgling 19 year old might say decades from now after listening to an hour or two of sad tales told to him by his grandfather, who lived amongst this swarm of cuckolds. The evidence is nauseatingly overwhelming at this point. I have mixed views about RSD these days, but it's at least encouraging to see the droves of guys curious to explore a strategy different from the one society has imposed on them from an early age. If we get a few weirdos who now do pushups in the middle of a club and drive "negging" to an annoyingly absurd pitch as a result - oh well. Can't win them all. At least the beginning of a long stretch of experimentation and countless trials & errors is underway with the aim of shaking up this pervasive white knight fagg0try that's severely infected society.
It's women who have long been guilty of inverting the expression "better alone than in bad company" into "better in bad company than alone", but what do you know? Now we have flocks of castrated men subscribing to this perverse worldview. We have guys believing that they are "lucky" to have certain girls in their lives, practically thanking the heavens with a level of gratitude on par with what a blind person would experience if their sight was somehow magically restored. Men don't want to be MEN anymore. What once was considered to be "a man", society now tries to teach as being synonymous with being an "@sshole", "misogynist", and if that doesn't work, they flood them with the fear of spending their rest of their days alone. "Better in bad company than being alone"...
Blaming women en masse won't get men anywhere though - won't change a damn thing. On a micro scale, how effective is it to tell your girl that she can't text any one of her seven orbiters any longer? ...unless you spell out the consequence that follows from her continuation of such behavior - that is, the termination of "us". No fighting, no little "talks", no couple's therapy - it all comes to an end - poof! - just like that. It's not fire that wins this kind of war, it's coldness, deprivation, starvation. Of what? Attention, time, resources. But men today are afraid to go there, because dying alone, simply being alone, scares the living sh1t out of them. This enormous sh1t test that is feminism will continue to bring guys to their knees because they're too frightened to walk the fvck away. And how could they? In their eyes, women ought to be counted as the Eighth Wonder of the World.
Society conditioning us to be white knights is only made possible because it very cleverly, insidiously, surreptitiously, and efficaciously conditions us to be fearful.