Does she want to hook up?

[Parachute]

There's this girl I met briefly last year who was a friend of a friend, and I went to her apartment to help her out with something. She seemed pretty cool, but I didn't really know her very well. Fast forward, and she added me on facebook and we started chatting, and then she gave me her phone number so I could text her. I started texting her the next day, and she mentioned how we've only met once and i replied how it'll be twice once we get back on campus and she talked about hanging out etc, but then she told me she was going to bed and she'd text me tomorrow and sent a smiley face and all of that.

So then she texts me yesterday and we chat and she mentioned how she's a life guard and talked about how tan she was and how she loves working out, and then she sent me a pic telling me to check out her abs, and in the pic it's her with her shirt pulled up showing her stomach with a belly button ring, and at the same time she's pulled down her shorts on one side showing her panties. I told her I was impressed and she said aw shanks. After that it really wasn't much, so she goes to bed, says she'll text me tomorrow

Now it's today, she texts me, we talk. I'm heading back to school earlier because i have to, and i talked about how i was gonna be bored and she said, "It'll be fine I'll be here" and I talked about how she'd have to come visit. Then she mentioned my little brother who is in my profile pic and talked about how cute he is, and I said "yeah, he's the better looking version of me. It's unfortunate" and she said, "I doubt it, because you're very cute." So then i brought up that photo and said I was surprised she had her belly button pierced and that I thought it was sexy and she sent me another pic of her stomach. Later on she mentioned how she talked about her ex bf the only time we met and that he was an idiot, and that she wanted a gentleman, and then went on to say she's not really looking for a relationship because relationships are too high maintainence.

I'm not looking for a relationship either, but do you guys think that she's interested in hooking up? I'd appreciate the feedback, and how would i go about this? Thank ya

 

[SoSuave666]

She's probably wet right now just thinking about you cvmming all over her belly.

Dude, it's obvious she's tryna chill when you get back to campus...whatever that entails. I'd say it's definitely a hook up if she is sending you photos and callin' you cute. College chicks are so hornie for alpha d!ck it's crazy. Give them a lil taste and you'll see that she actually DOES want a 'ship.

I've also learned that when a chick complains about what her ex used to do (save obvious over the top AFC ****) she actually gets wetter than niagra falls for that sh!t. Like if she says her ex was such a jerk he never bought her gifts. Or like her ex never called when he said he would. These are examples of things that actually get her hamster spinning, which we all know is good.

My final suggestion is to text less. I know it's the way of these college bitties; but trust me. If you're going back soon, give the texting a bit of a rest. I'm not saying cut her off, but maybe respond less quickly or less often. Maybe one text for each of her two. You don't want her thinking you have no options and the best thing that's going for you is the fact that she will be at school early just like you. You are a man of high value. If you receive a text from her on a friday or saturday night or afternoon, wait til the next day to text her back. Get her spinnin a bit bro.

This seems like an absolute lock that you hook up with her. When you get her in person make sure you're the king of the sack just like she probably thinks you are right now.

 

[In10se]

Its just a matter of hanging out with her alone and getting things to flow. You lead the physical interaction. Don't sit around sheepishly and think about if you should or shouldn't. Make out with her, kiss her neck, kiss her body, suck her nipples, finger her nice and good...anddd she's yours. If you are good in bed she will probably end up wanting to date you, if not she sounds like a sexy **** buddy and a nice way to spend your time while at school early.

 

[Parachute]

That's all true, but my issue is that I'm a bad closer, and to be honest with you gents, I've only ever dated one girl and i've only ever been with that same girl. I can get girls to want me, and i'm confident in myself 100%. It's just the moral side to it. My friends see me with the hottest girls on campus, and they wonder how i get dates with these girls, but i never close the deal. We go on a date, and then I don't want her anymore. I want that **** to stop this year, and I don't want to blow any more opportunities with these girls. According to my ex, I'm very good in the sack, but then again, that's only one chicks opinion. What my best friend always says is that I don't get friendzone, I do the friendzoning, because I choose not to pull the trigger when the girl finally wants me.

 

[Parachute]

bump

 

[Pimp-sicle]

i'm confident in myself 100%.

Actually your not. Want evidence?? She mentions your brother is cute and you say "Yeah he's the better looking version of me??" ---- what guy who is truly confident would talk himself down to a girl he's trying to bang?

Exhibit B; she shows you a pic of her stomach obviously attention w-orrrrr-ing and fishing for compliments and you take the bait hook line and sinker. Its not a bad thing to compliment, but make it unique and on your own terms. A much better response would have been:

"Wow!!!!!....... I love that lava lamp on your dresser!" haha

As Suave said, that would've peaked her interest because your not like the typical guy who's drooling over her and validating her existence.

We go on a date, and then I don't want her anymore.

If you really want to over come your issue and want help, you need to be honest with us.

You go on dates with HAWT girls and YOU don't want them anymore??? Yeah I'm calling bs on that. Your afraid to make a move because you care too much about what the girl will think and you are AFRAID that she will think your a bad kisser, or your d-hick is too small etc etc. Well bro, these are all normal thoughts of someone who doesn't have experience.

There's only one way to fix this issue. Go out and start hooking up. Seems like your a reasonably good looking guy, so get yourself out there ,be confident and realize that 90% of sexual attraction is created in a girl's mind before you two ever get naked. If you can seduce her with your mind, you can seduce her body. In other words, fake it til you make it. Ask yourself,

"If I was banging a different hotties several times a week, how would I act??"

"If I knew 20 girls wanted my nutzz right now, how would I walk, talk and behave around them???"

What my best friend always says is that I don't get friendzone, I do the friendzoning

Actually you DO get friend-zoned. But the phucked up part is you put YOURSELF there, before you even truly get rejected by the girl. You strike yourself out before taking a swing because you are ASSUMING in your mind that they won't want you. Now do you realize how silly that is??


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Game plan for this life-guard.

1) text her less

2) be unpredictable with your texting. Sometimes text back soon, sometimes text back waaaaay later. Sometimes don't text back at all. If your confused as to how you should figure out which texts not to reply to, use logic. If she is talking about something retarded and not asking you a valid question, don't respond.

3) always end the conversation on a high note and try to end it FIRST most of the time. Occasionally its fine to text a bit more.

4) HINT @competition. If she says "how was your weekend?" You should say something like "oh it was rad, we (she will be thinking "who the phuck was he with??) went to this crazy house party, they had a bounce house and these drunk chicks were acting like gymnasts."

You leave it at that and she will likely think you hooked up with one of those girls or that other girls were flirting with you.

This is called competition anxiety. Its the same thing chumps do when they zero in on ONE GIRL, then call/text too much and when she doesn't respond relatively quickly, they freak out and think she is banging someone else.


Learn to become the PRIZE, rather than chasing girls. And with that said, go meet MORE girls, because the more you have, the less you care.






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[yuppaz]

She's into you...Just a guess here but mayyyybe you aren't comfortable with being sexual with these girls? Gotta realize she wants sex just as much as you.... To get over that issue force yourself to continue with things and imagine f&ckin the sh1t out of her.