Does she sound like she was abused?

[rgeere]

Was this girl abused in her youth or just generally dumping her feelings on me? I get the opinion that maybe she was inidrectly asking me to do something for her, other than that I don't really understand why she would just start off telling me these things.

This is not word for word. I am going from memory and I think I might have left a little bit out, but this is the main gist of it.

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Girl: Well, times are going to be tough for me, I need to save up money to take my educational exam but I am broke poor, and don't know alot of math, enough to be required to pass the exam.

Me: Yeah, they tend to push alot of mathimatical ability for those test.

Girl: Yes they do, so I am changing my major to english; because I am better at that.

Me: Sounds to me like you will do well

Girl: I still don't have a lot of money and this semester I will be on a tight budgit. I only have half a tank of gas, so I can't go to church this week, and saturday night I will have to walk in the dark home late at night, and if I do that I will get thrashed.

Me: (puzzled at why she used the word "thrashed") Thrashed?

Girl: Yes, Scott will thrash me, Bill will thrash me, Dirk will thrash me, and my boyfriend would also thrash me.

Girl: They would never left me walk home alone like that.

Girl: I will have to stay at home and watch church on television, I can't even go.

Girl: (hugs me)

Me: (hugs back) Everything will work out in the end.

Girl: will I have to go, I'll see ya

Me: Yeah, cya
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[Ice Cold]

Muahahah

I think she's saying: "I'm lonely, let's go ****" but I see that too often.



Avoid the unlucky and the unhappy. Isolation from them is your only option.



In other words - it's too much baggage for you. Next!

 

[rgeere]

Yeah, I almost felt a little sorry for her, and didn't say much except a few words of encouragement. I guess I could brighten her day some, but she would have to come seek me out for that.

 

[WaterTiger]

I don't think she was abused. I think she's looking for sympathy and get you to pay for everything. She's got a bad case of "Poor Me Syndrome" She's going to be an emotional vampire and unless you want to be sucked dry, you should avoid her.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by WaterTiger
I don't think she was abused. I think she's looking for sympathy and get you to pay for everything. She's got a bad case of "Poor Me Syndrome" She's going to be an emotional vampire and unless you want to be sucked dry, you should avoid her.

You think so as well? I've sort of suspected that. A little while back she tried to get me to take some time off of my busy schedule to come fix her bike, and I wouldn't do it so she asked one of my friends.

The sad part is that he actually went out of his way and did it for her. Even worse she got him to actually waste his gas driving her around with it trying to get some stuff for her in town aferwards. Guess he will have to live and learn just like I did.....

I learned my lesson with her long ago back when I was trying to win her over as an afc and never fell for it since. Were still friends, but I don't go out of my way to do things for her usually.

 

[Player_Supreme]

I can sum this up in a word:

TRICK!

Your the john she is the ho: her goal is to get you to feel sorry for her cause she smells a symp that she can use. Fools will always fall for those cute icon words like "hug". Desperate lonly AFC can't resist it. Women know this. That is why they use them in their emails:

Enjoy your day off. I wish I could be there with you but a girl has to earn a couple pennies today Cal me later if you have some free time. I would love to hear your sexy voice again. It brightens my day.

<<<KISS>>>


Don't get fooled by the master game players (women). Here is one of the rules to help your game:

The Rules To Play By:

A Player


* keeps his emotions to himself.
* is his own best company.
* doesn't get paid for screwing. He gets his pay from always having
the right thing to say to his females.
* with sense never lets a female go who still has some trick in her.
* is really a b*tch who has reversed the game.
* should be prince charming to the females. They should think you're
GOD!!!
* should always have one thought in his head, Play Or Die!!!
* should control the whole female, be the boss of her life, even her
thoughts.
* should always be determined in any and everything.
* should always recognize and respect other Players.
* should never accept anything but his money.
* must be serious!!!
* has to be married, married to the game!!!
* could cut his d*ck off and still Play his ass off!!!
* is the lonliest person in the world.
* wants any female who can make him money.
* cannot feel like a Player with one female, raise a stable.
* loves it when his women love him.
* has to use great pressure.

Women....

* A Player with a fine female has to keep his game tight.
* Females always try to find a weakness in a Player.

* A pretty black female and a white female are alike. They will try
destroy your stable and leave you broke.
* The way you start with a female is the way you end with her. Play the Game
hard from the start.
* If you chase a female you get a weak one, if you stalk her you get
a strong one.
*Don't give a trifel broke female a second chance.

(this means don't waste your time with broke assed begging ho's)

* Always keep your women on mental file.
* There is nothing more important than what makes a new female tick
and why. Make her tell you her life story.
* The tougher you are, the more she will love you.
* Make her convince you, that she should be your girl.
* It's better to have no female than half of a female.
* If your women act up, put them in check quick.
* Never put two new females together, they will plot on you.
* It thrills women when their Man makes a mistake. Don't make any.
* Never let your women break your rules.
* Never let your women get loud with you.
* Never neglect your women.
* If your women gets stolen the reason why is because your game was
not tight enough.
* A female in strange surroundings is more dependent on her Man.
.
* Women think twice about leaving a rich Player, so work on your front and clout.
* For every girl that leaves you, get two.
* A Player should always tell his women something new everyday to hold
them.
* Run your women like a business.
* Keep your women well maintained.

Remember....



*there isn't a female you can't do without!
* just like drugs, don't get high off your own supply and what your
supply is, is women.
* the world is nothing but a b*tch, and you are her pimp!!!!
* earn your Player degree in Playerology.
* you are not a gentleman, you are a Player!!!
* you only get great by Playing by the rules.
* you don't have to Play, you got to Play the game.
* it's a violation of the Players laws to quit a female who is bringing
you love and attention.
* the Players game is not for kids.
* never confide in your women, keep your thoughts a secret.
* Playing isn't a sex game, it's a mind game.
* just like a company, downsize and upgrade if you have to.
* true friends mean more than any female.
* in a Player's life, yesterday means nothing, today is everything!!!
* the game of being a Player is like a chess game, you must think before you move.


Always....


* find ways to keep your women without kissing their ass.
* seek knowledge about the game.
* be positive in everything you do, especially in this game.
* take care of the little things and if the female is qualified make
her take care of the big things.
* keep your mind on your money and your own life!!!
* live by the rules you set down on your women.
* keep the Player / female relationship well defined.
* be a puzzle to your women, that's a way how to keep them.
* remember what you are, a Player!!!
* remember, the only heaven for a Big Daddy Player is one filled with women and money.
* remember a Player's wardrobe has to be neat and clean, his ride must
be eye catching.