does she like me?

[falcondawg81]

Okay there is this girl in my english class that i like.

We first started to talk when i needed to copy her class notes after i was absent. Eventually she wrote me some notes during about how she wished she had hair like mine (i know kinda odd) and that she wanted to hang out with me. I wrote back that we should hang out and she gave me her number. A couple days later she called me and said she wanted to chill together so i picked her up and we went to MOE's and talked for a couple hours. It was a schoolnight so i took her home around 7:30 p.m. Just this past weekend, about a week after our first outing together, she invited me to a little party of about ten people. I went over at 10:00 p.m. and we at first talked for a couple minutes then we all drank a couple beers and some vodca. We played truth or dare and one dare somebody gave me was to touch any girl i want anywhere i want. I chose to touch the girl i like and i chose to rub her tits and massage them. It seemed like she liked it. Later on she wanted me to dance with her in the living room with the music blaring (remember she is really drunk). I danced with her for a while and then i laid down on the couch. It was nearly time to leave and she asked me to clean up with her. I did and we talked a little but i acted like i was talking to a stupid retard because she was so drunk. Then we went out so i could show her mine clean car (she earlier told me that she wanted to clean it with her). I cleaned it earlier that day. We sat down in the two front seats and reclined back. We talked for about 10 minutes until her friends interupted us because they were ready to leave and she was the driver. She pleaded to have at least 2 more minutes with me and they agreed. I gave her a hug and then i left.

Now it is 2 days after that night. In class we didn't talk because it was a pretty busy day so i did not go over and talk to her. After school she was behind me in her car as i was driving out of the school parking lot. I turned around and said hey but she seemed to not be in the mood to say hey. I texted her and said "Did you have fun saturday night?". She replied, "i dont really remember it". I also called her after school and she didn't answer.

Does this girl even like me or did the alcohol just bring out a girl who likes anybody? I am so confused. She seemed like she was in a bad mood today but when she talked to her friends she seemed happy. What is going on with this girl? Does she not want to talk to me anymore?

 

[gmt]

*FIRST POST*

sounds like she likes you, but alcohol does alot to people... just forget about that night, and act like it never happened around her.
if she tells you something about her that you found out on that night, just be like (i know,
you told me one night at a party) and you don't have to hear the same story twice. sounds like she likes you, and as for the part where she didn't feel like saying "hi" , people get that way sometimes.. even if you hit it, she would still have those moments.

just continue where you left off the last time before the party.

 

[Mission]

Ughh what a ***** she is being. Lets make something clear, people only say they "don't remember" when something bad happened. If she had a good time, she would have replied by saying "yeah it was fun, a little hazy for me though cause i was wasted!" just saying "i don't really remember it" is pretty vague and it seems like she wants you to know that she didn't have an awesome time.

--Mission

 

[falcondawg81]

whatever

 

[Skilla_Staz]

I disagree with the "I don't remember it" thing. I know plenty of people who pull the "I don't remember it" line, when they hang out with their best friends and get hammered, and supposedly have a crazy fun time. It's called blacking out or whatever. It happens. Don't read too much into it.

 

[KillaCam]

Alcohol can make anyone get with anyone.

Either she likes you or she doesn't. The only way you will know it to make that move on her. If she doesn't take it very well, move on. No excuses.

 

[high_roller77]

i ahd a similar thing happen to me, the girl claimed to not remeber much, but later talked to her friends about it and i found out through other information sources i have, so its hard to tell if she really cant remeberor not.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

I'm going to side with KillaCam. Act as if the party never happened. Start fresh. For future reference, I try to keep the pimpin' to a minimum around a drunk broad, unless I know for a fact that shes on my nuts.

 

[falcondawg81]

ya today i said hey and she just said hey back very quitely like she was mad that i spoke to her. I dont know wat is up with this girl. what did i ever do except go to a party and have a good time?

 

[Ken88]

when the alchohol comes out the clothes jsut seem to come off

 

[jmm854]

Yes, she likes you. A high school girl will not take initiative to make plans or even show interest unless they like you. Most of the time they won't anyway, so not only did you get a girl to take a liking to ya but one that can think for herself too. Congratulations they're few and far between.

We know she has an interest. So now all there's left to figure out is how high her interest level is. Don't waste any time in doing this. Most girls have new crushes more often than their period hits, and once your out of demand you're too late. Ask her out and go do something fun. Don't drink on the date, don't get high on the date, just you and her go out. This is to not give her the wrong impression about you, it is not attractive to want to drink every time you're together. After one more sober date with her you should be able to better measure her interest. Things to look for to measure her interest are things like, does she start/continue conversations, does she touch you in any way, does she smile (this is big), does she laugh (this is also big), basically does she appear to be having a good time. These kind of details aren't a 100% way to tell how she feels about you but it does it will give you a better idea where you stand.

One more thing. It is equally important for YOU to do all the things I just mentioned. Smile, laugh, keep the conversation flowing, and do things like put your arm around her, hold her hand, things to be close to her in a non-obvious way without being disrespectful.

The hard part is already over. She likes you. Just figure out where you stand, assume she likes you (this will help you be more calm), and, oh yeah, bang her for me!

Take her easy, if she's easy take her twice

Jared

 

[FranklinsTower]

BS alchohol is an exuse, I've been soo drunk i could hardly walk and wouldnt hook up with chicks i wouldnt want to sober

 

[Muphaser]

Invite her to hangout sober.. then you'll find out

 

[falcondawg81]

today i didnt talk to her again and she didnt come over to talk either. i tried not to have eye contact with her. i feel she watches me though. in class and in the parking lot after school i see her lookin me way. is it over between us? i have not done anything really. i dont understand this behavior from her. is there a chance she is just mad at somebody or something else and she just does not feel like talkin to me? im so pissed off. this **** is so stupid. i didnt do anything but go to a party with her. it cant be me who she is mad at, can it?

 

[Mr_rogers]

today i didnt talk to her again and she didnt come over to talk either. i tried not to have eye contact with her. i feel she watches me though. in class and in the parking lot after school i see her lookin me way. is it over between us? i have not done anything really. i dont understand this behavior from her. is there a chance she is just mad at somebody or something else and she just does not feel like talkin to me? im so pissed off. this **** is so stupid. i didnt do anything but go to a party with her. it cant be me who she is mad at, can it?

For God's sake, just make a move already. You'll find out if she's pissed at you for sure then, won't you?

 

[falcondawg81]

ya well i guess ill just ask her out. i bet she is just playing hard to get. this weekend ill go on a date with her.

 

[falcondawg81]

u think she might be playing hard to get?