Does she like me, and is shy, or does she dislike me, but why why why?

Porky

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Yeah man, you need to keep us updated.
 

The Loner

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:)

It's working. I quit being her doormat, heck, I was pretty much just going about my normal routine for a while. She seemed ok for a bit, but then she started doing stuff like coming into the same room I was to do her school, etc. Last night, I was doing some computer programming, and she came in and got on the other computer. We chatted while we did whatever, but eventually her mother made her go to bed. I didn't say anything. She shut off her computer... went in the other room, I didn't say anything. Sure enough, she came back and smiled at me and said "good night!"

I smiled right back at her and said good night back.

The most tempting thing for me to do is now that I think she likes me, is to become her doormat again. If I do that, I'll be right back where I started. *sigh*

And sorry for not keeping you guys updated, it was really just yesterday that she warmed up to me again.

You. Guys. Rock.
 

LikRetsam

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Congratulations.
 

Ballistik

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Hey man, you're starting to get things right. We've all been in your position at one time or another, I doubt any of the few born Don Juans would ever need to visit a site about how to become one.

You're exactly right that the worst thing you can do is revert to being a doormat. I've done it before once I thought I had successfully snagged a girl; and in a little time, she lost interest. Don't worship the ground she walks on. Continue on the path of learning.

Wow, I almost sound Buddhist.
 

ranger655

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Dude, im not a pro DJ or nothin but i suggest something that can really help you. Lift weights play sports and get big. physical challenges are a way to becoming a reall man and going through any mental barriers makes talking to a girl easy as **** compared to squating 400 pounds.
 

Dapper Don

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All I can say is run. Leave. Go. Skip. Find some hills, or preferably, a high school, and flee to it. Maybe I don't know all the details, but homeschool can ruin a life. Seriously. This is your youth. You only get one youth. Do you want to say you spent high school at home on the couch doing math homework with your mom in the next room?

Maybe I'm beating a dead horse. But if there's any way, any way at all, that you could get out of the homeschool situation I would recommend it. I'd probably try vagrancy first. Probably more interesting people.

Maybe you want to leave already. Isn't there anything you can do? (I know I know absolutely nothing about your life... But still... Homeschool... *shudder*)
 

assassin

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Yes homeschool is bad for your social life. If you haven't felt depression this far into it your probably going to be hit hard with it when you become the DJ you are... I'm in the same terrible situation. I live in a small ass town too. I get out there and try to meet chicks but I'm lucky if I see 3 a week. ****ing situation........ AHH


sorry im venting. I usually go back to my old town of 100,000 to meet chicks.

****ing homeschool I swear.
 
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