Does she find you attractive? It's quite simple....

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It's alot easier then we make it out to be.

A woman who finds you attractive/wants to know more about you will look at you and try "to catch your eyes". The more she looks at you (e.g staring); the hotter she finds you.

A woman who doesn't find you physically appealing and/or is already in a happy relationship will generally avoid initiating eye contact or never look at you because she's afraid giving you some can be misconstrued as interest on her behalf.

If you seem non-existent to a woman; her being in a committed relationship is usually the case. It ain't nothing personal against you.

It's simple!
 

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Yea, not always. Some could be intimidated and it depends on how they look away and what happens during and after. Allot of women look away while processing. There's a little more to it, than just looking or not looking.
 

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Oh yes, that look. Let me give you an anecdote. I went out a few months back, and got that smoldering look from a hottie on entering a bar. Anyway, I then notice she is with a colleague of mine... they had been going out for months! I remember thinking at the time, based on that smoldering look, that their relationship might be a rocky one.

Sure enough, I heard they broke up recently. And when I was out the other weekend, I saw her at a bar by herself.... now acting all dizzy, bitchy and oh so important on her cell-phone. Hot... but not.

More than often the 'smoldering' look is one of egoism, about her, about trying to get some attention. Another time [same bar], got the same look with another woman. Responded, and started talking only to have her boyfriend end up pulling her away [she denied being his girlfriend and was obviously making trouble].

The look you should be looking for is the less obvious and subtle one. This is more often than not genuine, emanating from a better personality.
 
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Looks.... Well, chicks making eye contact is really just her signaling you to approach. The only way to know for sure if she really finds you attractive is if she shows up on a date. You have to ask her out.

I can not say how important this is. Her going out with you is the single biggest indicator of interest. She might tell you she dries up just looking at you... but if she is willing to meet you one a date... you have a shot, you just have to keep acting like a man and be patient... you have a shot a fvcking her if she is willing to be alone with you on a date. Don't believe any of that chemistry bvllsh!t. You can make chemistry if you are willing to go for what you want.

In contrast, if she tells you how much she likes you... but she she won't go out with you... you have no shot.
 

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A woman who doesn't find you physically appealing and/or is already in a happy relationship will generally avoid initiating eye contact or never look at you because she's afraid giving you some can be misconstrued as interest on her behalf.
A woman can be in a happy relationship but still be looking for some validation/attention/assurance that men still find her attractive.
Also, some girls might be looking at you to find out whether or not you are hot, and get caught looking.
So it's not like every time a girl looks at you, it means she wants in your pants.
 

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you cannot go by eye contact. beauty is intimidating and a good looking alpha will intimidate most females.

In my estimation only 10% of women will give direct strong eye contact to a guy. The rest will just stand there and ignore you/look pretty but the moment you approach they will open up warmly, if attracted to you. Alot of women lack confidence and will throw sideways looks/glances when you arent noticing it.

thats why i say approach if you want, dont go simply by the eye contact...but the ones who give you eye contact you should hit them up instantly, thats a strong sign.
 

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A woman can be in a happy relationship but still be looking for some validation/attention/assurance that men still find her attractive.

Also, some girls might be looking at you to find out whether or not you are hot, and get caught looking.
So it's not like every time a girl looks at you, it means she wants in your pants.
The above is a look of curiosity, which should be returned with interest.... ignition, and you have a possible romance.

But this one - Also, some girls might be looking at you to find out whether or not you are hot find her hot, and you get caught looking.

The Jezebel!:D
 

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you cannot go by eye contact. beauty is intimidating and a good looking alpha will intimidate most females.

In my estimation only 10% of women will give direct strong eye contact to a guy. The rest will just stand there and ignore you/look pretty but the moment you approach they will open up warmly, if attracted to you. Alot of women lack confidence and will throw sideways looks/glances when you arent noticing it.

thats why i say approach if you want, dont go simply by the eye contact...but the ones who give you eye contact you should hit them up instantly, thats a strong sign.
You got it right.
 
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you cannot go by eye contact. beauty is intimidating and a good looking alpha will intimidate most females.

In my estimation only 10% of women will give direct strong eye contact to a guy. The rest will just stand there and ignore you/look pretty but the moment you approach they will open up warmly, if attracted to you. Alot of women lack confidence and will throw sideways looks/glances when you arent noticing it.

thats why i say approach if you want, dont go simply by the eye contact...but the ones who give you eye contact you should hit them up instantly, thats a strong sign.
Are you a good looking alpha? What do you do for a living? Do you have any proof of attractive girls you have been with?
 

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A woman can be in a happy relationship but still be looking for some validation/attention/assurance that men still find her attractive.
Also, some girls might be looking at you to find out whether or not you are hot, and get caught looking.
So it's not like every time a girl looks at you, it means she wants in your pants.
I never understood this. Is this how they base their self worth or something? I'd think they'd be looking at home for that attention and validation :rolleyes:
 
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