Does "race" matter at all to a girl?

[40quid]

Re: 40quid:

Originally posted by Player_Supreme

I have a few questions about #3

I know from living in Japan that japanese husbands can be very dominante and the women are very subservient.

I have no knowledge of chineese or Korean or any of the other asian clans. I too have bought into some of the sterotypes put out there.

I had thought that chinese men were more sympish and the women more demanding...kind of like the jewish sterotype.

I also believed that asian men were more prone to jealousy like the latin male steroytype is this true?

And I've never heard about asian men except the japanese treating their women bad.

My point is that I've never heard of #3 sterotype...I had heard mostly the opposite. [/B]

From what I understand, this stereotype is from action movies where you have Asian villans, or stuff like the "Joy Luck Club" where all the men were AFC-losers or domestic violence poster children.

Like I said, yes, there is a reason why a stereotype exists, but that doesn't mean that you have to play into it. Be YOU -- people will appreciate you more for it.

 

[showtime17]

Actually where I live, in Montreal, interracial dating is pretty much the norm. You see interracial couples everywhere and it's the black guys (usually ghetto looking) that seem to be getting all the finest chicks whether it's black, white, asian, indian, arab or hispanic...Some of these guys are really ugly looking, but I guess dating black guys is in now among chicks. (which sucks for us whiteys) On the other hand you also have chicks on the other extreme who wouldn't even touch a guy outside of their own ethnic group.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by showtime17
Actually where I live, in Montreal, interracial dating is pretty much the norm. You see interracial couples everywhere and it's the black guys (usually ghetto looking) that seem to be getting all the finest chicks whether it's black, white, asian, indian, arab or hispanic...Some of these guys are really ugly looking, but I guess dating black guys is in now among chicks. (which sucks for us whiteys) On the other hand you also have chicks on the other extreme who wouldn't even touch a guy outside of their own ethnic group.

Dude, I went to Montreal, and the only hot white girls who were with black men were off-duty strippers. I SWEAR! LOL!



There are normal hot white girls, and there are strippers and escorts that are hot. Don't you know that? Jenna Jameson is a hella-foine white broad. But she's a prostitute. A lot of the girls in downtown Montreal are too. And let me take care to differentiate between the ones that are fashionistas and "mods" with the "vegas showgirl" types. It's the latter that I saw hang off the arms of black men in Montreal.


I mean, not to cut down on those ghetto black guys, but I didn't now see a single clean cut, high-class professional black man with a white woman there. All of them had braids, wore ENYCE up the yin yang, had gold teeth, and were obvious drug dealers and pimps.



I *know* that this sounds like a gross stereotype of black men in America, but in Montreal those black men really were walking stereotypes. Funny thing.


In American cities however, I see more realistic and *normal* black male-white female couples. Some are professionals, some are hood-trash/trailer-trash, some are middle class, etc. In Montreal 99% were of the second variety. It was blatantly obvious.



I know some people are going to shoot back at me accusing me of being an insecure "hata", but that's what I saw with my own two eyes in Montreal - my eyes don't lie.

 

[showtime17]

It's true, Montreal does have a huge population of these ghetto types. But not all of the hot chicks that go out with them are off duty strippers, some of them maybe, and some of them just dress like that. But when you go to a club here, the thing I noticed is that all (well not all, but a lot) the girls go for the black guy here. No matter what he looks like. Even if he's an old ugly motha-fukka. And this happens even with the girls that I know. And to my knowledge the chicks I know don't work as off duty strippers, but go to school. There's no denying that ghetto black boys are da "in" thing now in Montreal and all the chicks want them.

 

[KillingTime]

The whole getting along with your own race thing isn't always true, it has more to do with your surroundings. Im from Texas and both my parents are from Mexico, grew up speaking spanish at home but I admit i act very white. I usually don't get along very well with Hispanic/Mexican people... I don't hate my own race or anything but most points of view clash really bad. Around here the lower class is mostly hispanic/african american and the upper class is mostly white... well I grew up in the upper-class so I basically grew up surrounded by white people and that just had a huge impact on me. With that said i've noticed that all the girls ive been with and flirt with are almost always white (or asian, but thats bc i have a thing for asians) And the girls that hit on me are usually white too. I don't look all that Mexican, I have a natural tan but it's fairly light... I think it's more the way I dress than anything (no shaved head, no 20 gold chains, no extremely baggy pants, no wife beaters)

 

[KC_Seductive]

Re: Not really an issue for me

Originally posted by So Many Ways
I'm black and I actually do better with white or latin women than I do with black women. I can't really explain why that's the case. I have more latin women flirt with me than anything.

What city are you in? I rarely see latinas go outside of their race here in L.A.

 

[wayword]

I know from living in Japan that japanese husbands can be very dominante and the women are very subservient.

And I've never heard about asian men except the japanese treating their women bad.

That's all 1-sided US culturally-illiterate feminist propaganda.

In Africa, they still practice female genital circumcision and "sex cleaners."

2/3 of Black babies are born to single moms here in the US.

And we all know how "ho'z" fare in hip-hop...

In Saudi Arabia, women aren't even allowed to drive.

And how chauvinist do you think "machismo" Latin/Mediterranean men are?

Etc, etc.

Therefore, it's BS to say Asian men are more abusive or chauvinist than others - and in such cases, it's mutually-consensual. Let's face it, deep down women WANT to be dominated, led and provided for anyways.

Thing is, you can surgically take anything out of context out of any culture to show how "wrong" they are. But, every culture evolves in a closed system and naturally checks & balances itself. Things happen the way they do because that's what WORKED.

Feminism will NOT survive because it does NOT work - as is evident from the social chaos caused by self-absorbed, irrational, irresponsible women out of control over the last generation here. Say what you want about benevolent patriarchy, but matriarchy is 10X WORSE!

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

It's simple. Ask yourself why race would matter to anyone about ANY issue (relationships, friendship, sex, jobs) and invariably you end up getting around to bigotry. I'm not saying I'm unbigoted... everyone's at least slightly bigoted. It's a byproduct of living in a society that saturates us in stereotype. That's why it matters to people in general, and that's why it matters to women.

 

[wayword]

Does "race" matter?
Do "looks" matter?
Does "penis size" matter?

Since these are the questions that keep popping up most frequently, I'd say they actually matter the MOST - at least here in the US.

Anyways, there's not much you can do to change any of them, so better learn to make the best of what you got. Which is what game is all about...

 

[everywomanshero]

Actually, I can't imagine how race matters. I get great reactions from women of all races. Some white girls try to play the "b1tchy white girl" role, but only if they think you aren't important. If you really want those girls for some odd reason, they aren't really hard to get either you just have to change a few things.

Women of all races are attracted to men of all races. Unless you are trying to stalk one specific woman, then race should not be an issue.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Does "race" matter?
Do "looks" matter?
Does "penis size" matter?

Since these are the questions that keep popping up most frequently, I'd say they actually matter the MOST - at least here in the US....

As often as it comes up in the forum it seems that it matters more-so to men.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

As often as it comes up in the forum it seems that it matters more-so to men.

Or better yet, if it comes up so often on these forums, why did someone have to dig up a two year old post about it?