Does not make any sense

[Ambassador_Serious]

My fellow Brethren.....

Last night I was over a womans house who is a good friend of mine. Short and to the point .. we ate, watched movies, watched T.V. for a minute then got into the whole kissing, touching, taking off clothes etc ... BUT THEN she stopped .. she said... " not tonight ". Now of course I played it cool, but in my mind I"m thinking to myself ... " damn did I do something wrong ? " What gets on my last nerves is get into the action with the woman .. then all of a sudden she stops on you. She also responded .. " I want to, but not tonight ". So of course I played the calm and cool mode telling here " it's cool ", but in my mind like .. " why the hell would you go through all the peliminaries touching, taking off shirts, sucking here touching there, then all of a sudden .. HOLD UP !! " ... My fellow brethren please help me to understand ...

 

[Fash]

hehehe... typical female logic.

It is called ASD (Anti Sl*t Defence). She wants to make you wait for it, she thinks she will feel like a sl*t if she rushed into it.

I actually had the exact same words said to me last night. I played the cool card too, I did a couple of freezouts too. ("thats cool, lets watch some tv") then just put your cloths back on and carry on as before like you are not phased by it. they watch her jump on you. Freezeouts are generally used to eliminate LMR (Last Minute Resistance). They also workd when ASD kicks in.

Anyway, dont worry about it. You should go for the f-close next time for sure!

 

[tuxen]

I wouldn't take that crap. She knows shes getting you worked up, and then saying no when your hot n horny? You call her a friend? Sounds like she has you around her little finger...

Did she give you a reason? Did you ask?

If she was genuinely horny, you should have frozen her out, but you left some of the post 'not tonight' details out.

Otherwise you should have perhaps

a) asked her what the **** she thinks she is doing

and then

b) flopped it out and started jerking

Or it could have been a genuine reason like she was on her rags, in which case you should have asked for a *******.

 

[trance_addict]

PMS? She could have been doing you a favor! haha

 

[Ambassador_Serious]

..........

That the thing .. she was moaning, rubbing .. making ALL KINDS OF SOUNDS .. during the peliminaries. When she stopped I was going through the list of " did I pull a AFC move that I did not acknowledge or recongnize?" But no I did not " ask " why. In my mind I"m thinking if I ask I would sound cheap about the situation, so I did played " cool " as if it didn't phase me. To be honest I really didn't want to know why.

 

[HBK]

You did nothing wrong matem girls do this all the time. Next time when she starts kissing you, stop and say not 2nite im tired.... hehehe im serious! watch her reaction, start teasing her and make her want you more!