Does No Contact work better when she expects you to come back and you dont?

[pikachu69]

Does No Contact work better when she expects you to come back and chase her rather than after trying and she gives you a flakey answer and THEN doing it?

I'm at odds as when to apply NC, right now I'm in a sh1tty situation where I have feelings for a girl, raised her interest dramatically by a big gesture then I afc'd up cos i'm so nervous around her and needed to date close a time quickly cos I knew another guy was already ahead of me.

Now I f up today acted jealous (and maybe had reaon to..) she offered me Sunday, I pushed for a time she wouldn't give me 1. Now it's 'next week' I can't push for a time cos she gets angry with me for being pushy, it's not unreasonable that I want a specific date and time right? or is that still pushy?

Anyway, it's better I don't contact her next week and let her come back to me with a time and if she doesn't forget her? She expects me to come back, I won't now.

 

[pikachu69]

I'm noticing that when the IL is low everything I do annoys her, and anything my rival does seems to improve his level.

She seemed to want to talk to him and he was using this time to AMOG I noticed talking crap about being all non-shallow tryna supplicate to her supposed morals.

Anytime I said something she'd scowl and look annoyed.

If i dont use NC and use Ganji instead as a last ditch effort does it work better when you're suppose to have something set up?

I feel so desperate in this situation that she calls the shots but I know once I have her out at night with 1 alcohol drink I can get her interested again.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Drop Her.

 

[Perfect]

What's Ganji?