Does it sound needy/desperate to ask a girl to chill alone?

[shark]

I usually chill with my girl and all our friends. She'll usually be with her friends before, or eat with them or just have spoken to them earlier..and we just go to a friends house.

Will is sound weird/needy if I ask to hang out alone? Or how should i ask, bring it up.

Like 2-3 weeks ago she said she wished we were alone more. Last week I told her i wish we were alone more (yeah kinda stupid) and she hasnt said anything since.

How far in advance should i ask to chill alone? Oh yeah, and friday nights she's always tired from classes/sports and saturday night is usually a good night to go out and have fun and be social..and weeknights are schoolnights for us highschoolers

BTW-she IS my girlfriend of a few months but were almost ALWAYS with people...should i just ask to chill alone OR bring it up in a discusiion like we have to hang out more alone.

 

[shark]

i'll bump this before it gets buried

 

[Bible_Belt]

It is what you make of it, so make it no big deal. Don't ask; don't talk about it; just do it.

 

[shark]

how do i just "do it" w/out asking or talking about it? I don't have a car where i can just pickup and go pick her up like that

 

[brenbaus]

just tell her to come over your house and hang out for awhile, damn

 

[everywomanshero]

Here's how I'd frame it....

Iw as thinking about something you said a few weeks ago... we should really spend some time together, just you and I.

Then don't say anything, let her make the next move. If she doesn't jump on this, I'd question her intentions personally. She may just be wasting your time.

 

[jb82]

you NEED alone time...