Does it really get harder girls as they get older, but easier for us guys as we age?

[backbreaker]

hahahahah, right, 42 is a guy's prime all right.............. for pulling 35 year olds maybe. I'm getting really sick of half this entire forum having this mentality that gray haired guys could pull 18 year old girls - and they're better at it too. How could anyone be that stupid, why don't you guys start using your brain and not your imagination.

my dad is 52 years old and the last time i saw him in december when i was in town he had a girl in his car that was younger than you are.

though my dad probably has more game than anyone on this forum

 

[020204]

If you are picky about which gym you workout at and you are primarily motivated by having hot women, I am very sure you won't have to look that far to find gyms which are full of women who are older and have held their looks together very well. I think to assume all women have gone to rack and ruin once they hit 25 has a touch of misoginy about it. I am just as attracted to older women as younger onces. Only one priviso, that they are hot. If anything I prefer an older hot women who has really taken care of herself.

 

[JD57]

It's a debate, topic, discussion i've always heard about, does it really get harder for women as they get older, but the oppossite for men as they get older? The way someone told me and it has made me more curious about it, he said "A guy can get a woman at pretty much any age, but it doesn't work that way for them. They have to use the time they are young to find someone, Be happy your a guy because you have that luxury."

Many people say "Men age like Wine, Women age like Milk"

Also, David DeAngelo said this in his "Man" transformation seminar's:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6EzBB94aFc

So agree or disagree?

It's probably true.
Yea, women are judged on their looks. Ok. Nevertheless, just like the ugly girl got 140 offers on her dating profile in the other thread, women over 40 can get laid any time they want too. And they can go cougaring and score with guys in the 20s as often as they want.
Over 50 gets a little more problematic for them.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

It's probably true.
Yea, women are judged on their looks. Ok. Nevertheless, just like the ugly girl got 140 offers on her dating profile in the other thread, women over 40 can get laid any time they want too. And they can go cougaring and score with guys in the 20s as often as they want.
Over 50 gets a little more problematic for them.

Most people, always use the argument to say that we men have life easier is because we don't have to deal with periods, pregnancy, child-birth, besides that, would you say we have life overall easier than women?

 

[nismo-4]

It's probably true.
Yea, women are judged on their looks. Ok. Nevertheless, just like the ugly girl got 140 offers on her dating profile in the other thread, women over 40 can get laid any time they want too. And they can go cougaring and score with guys in the 20s as often as they want.
Over 50 gets a little more problematic for them.

Pu$$y is in demand at any age. Women know this very well. As long as guys keep looking for that easy lay, keep willing to put up with women's games, and paying for pu$$y/love/companionship, the price will continue to rise. Yes, even women in their 60's have lots of options!

A woman's body is typically dolled up, up for sale, and often goes to the highest bidder. Part of why women are so good at banding together to raise the price of pu$$y, and better than men are at lowering it.

Beautiful women are treated like celebs all the time. If a man has good looks, fame, and fortune, that just brings him up to that level. It wouldn't hurt to have these things though.

In a nutshell:
1. Looks/Muscles
2. Assets/Money
3. Game/Mouthpiece

Have any two on this list and you're good. Most sites won't tell you this though. Since they won't, I will.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/02/23/looks-count/

You were saying?

 

[Korrupt]

Had a friend (who's 31 and married) tell me that he's getting more attention from women now (at 31) then ever before.

Not trying to brag, but I'm tall, good looking, in great shape from busting my ass in the gym, and still get rejected left and right. And a lot of the time it's by an older(ish) woman because of my age! They just don't take me seriously, don't think I'm "mature" and don't think I can handle something serious(or serious-ish). I was actually just recently out on a date with a 28 year old from OkCupid.. We had a pretty good time. The next day I texted her saying it was fun and we should go out again, her response was "maybe if you weren't 21. The age gap is blah blah blah for me."

Women THINK and BELIEVE that men who are older are more mature, which is hilarious because it's completely wrong most of the time. Your personality (at least as a man) doesn't change too much. My dad's 73 years old and is less mature than me! Seriously! Same with his old highschool friends! If you're an X, Y or Z at 21-25, most likely you'll be an X, Y, or Z at 30-35. Women think differently. They always think people change or can change (I.E abusive relationships that women stay in).

Simple answer: Yes, being older helps. But if you have a good job, make good money, and are independent, you'll have much better success - at any age. Being in college, living with parents, and not having a job is a HUGE put-off for women who are 25-32 (those "omg I need a man/husband ages).

 

[JD57]

Most people, always use the argument to say that we men have life easier is because we don't have to deal with periods, pregnancy, child-birth, besides that, would you say we have life overall easier than women?

Yes, I would. I'd rather be a man.
Women can be mercenaries, no question. And it hurts men...but it really doesn't help women in the long run.
A man can get what he wants from women through persistence and some self-awareness to improve himself and learn from mistakes.
And face it, despite the cries about feminism, the workplace remains better for a man than a woman, in general.
One thing that men aging better than women (which is true) should demonstrate is that the MAIN PRIORITY of a man once out of high school is to prepare himself for life. That means get your education and figure out how to support yourself to meet your current and future tangible/financial needs. If you put women (or partying and other silly stuff) ahead of that, you will eff yourself. It's much harder to get that aspect straight in your 30s.

 

[Deep Dish]

JD57:
Nevertheless, just like the ugly girl got 140 offers on her dating profile in the other thread, women over 40 can get laid any time they want too. And they can go cougaring and score with guys in the 20s as often as they want.  Over 50 gets a little more problematic for them.

nismo-4:
Pu$$y is in demand at any age. Women know this very well. As long as guys keep looking for that easy lay, keep willing to put up with women's games, and paying for pu$$y/love/companionship, the price will continue to rise. Yes, even women in their 60's have lots of options!

Women in their 50's, 60's, and 70's have limited options, if you think in terms of genuine desire. They receive attention from men but not quality attention from the alpha high value men they really want, and they are aware any alpha male would likely only hit it & quit it. By the time women are in their 30's, or by the time they hit the wall, they "puke" at the thought of their selection of single men, whom they lament "all the guys I want are either married or gay" to which they are invisible, which leaves them with the Hobson's Choice of either lowering their standards (which they hypergamously are never happy with, but many relent) or owning cats, drinking mimosas, and posting sarcastic sardonic postcards on facebook.

 

[SgtSplacker]

It's a mixed thing because the pickins are slim also. All the really cherry ladies are all married when you get older or at least have kids too. So whats left are the ones that just weren't marriage material. Of course there are exceptions, but yeah. Theres definitely more easy lays when you get older, you just need to have your game on lock and by that time you should.

 

[TonyBaloney]

"He who works for nowt, and she who fooks for nowt, will never be out of work" My old Grandfather used to say that

If they love spreading they will always get ****, but if they are tight with their poon, they aint gonna be getting no interest when all their looks goes south

 

[Kerpal]

Women in their 50's, 60's, and 70's have limited options, if you think in terms of genuine desire.

As if that's not true of 50-70 year old men. This "it gets easier when you get older" thing is a myth designed to make young guys who don't get laid feel better. Kind of like believing in an afterlife instead of facing reality and accepting that death is final.

Old women can get young men easily, I rarely see an older man with a younger woman. Young women want to **** hot young guys with six packs and big biceps, not old men, plus there's a huge stigma against younger woman/older man couples while older woman/younger man couples are encouraged. I recently had a 21 year old girl tell me that I'm "too old for her". I'm 25.

 

[zekko]

As a 51 year old, I'll tell you what I think. No, it's not a myth that it gets easier when you're older. For a lot of reasons, probably too numerous to list here.

That doesn't mean I want to bang an 18 year old. That's basically a high school student, I'll pass. At my age my preference probably would be a girl in her 30s. Maturity counts for something. When I first hooked up with my girlfriend, I was 42 and she was 27.

Bigneil, who's 41, was banging that 19 year old. Girls in their 20s are well in range for guys in their 40s, no question. And most definitely guys in their 30s.

I have no doubt that if I broke up with my girlfriend, I could pick up some girl in her 20s. I'm not saying I would be better at it than a 27 year old dude, but I could do it. What makes it easier as an older guy is you can literally date a girl of practically any age (that's legal).

Some girls will exclude a guy based on his age. Some girls won't. Some girls will say they won't date an older guy, but then if 64 year old Steven Tyler walks in, she might change her mind. The key is if it's the RIGHT older guy. You've got to have some value. And another reason it gets easier for older guys is they have had time to build up status and value, while your typical 24 year old guy is still floundering around. They probably wouldn't want to date the 50 year old garbage man.

 

[TwistedFireStarter]

Man, I hope so.

They say men age better. Add in that men are also judged on their character--being older shows maturity, wisdom, experience, etc.

Women are judged solely on their looks. So they have but a small window for their prime.

You have to admit, it's good to be a man. Sometimes we don't think of it that way, but being a man is awesome. imagine being a chick where after a certain age you'll always lose to the younger, prettier girl, no matter how strong your personality is.

Agreed, and I've had several women point this out as well. As many of you point out, this isn't always the case, but I would imagine statistically, if we assume that men's worth is judged by his power, possessions, ability to provide, etc., so long as you don't spend the early part of your lifetime screwing around, these would only increase as you got older. Of course, attraction is part of the equation, but especially since (so far as I can tell), attraction in women is often driven more by emotional connection than raw physical attraction, I would imagine your ability to connect emotionally with women only gets better as you get older and wiser.

On the other hand, since many of us decide almost immediately if we're interested in a HB by sheer physical attraction, and none of us have learned how to turn back the biological clock and stop the damage done by metabolism, women really are in a race against time, some just at different paces, governed by genetics and how well they take care of themselves.

 

[020204]

I think Michelle and Barrick Obama are good examples of this. Barrick is in his prime, whereas Michelle looks like she really has to work for it more.

 

[HariPoter13]

http://cdn.lolhappens.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/576216_10150780611854795_9129004794_9563682_306120706_n.jpg

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

i guess David DeAngelo's speech, lecture in his "Man" transformation seminar was pretty accurate then

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Men are valued for their game and knowledge. As a man gets older his knowledge accumulates and this knowledge usually leads to better financial success which is attractive to woman.

Girls are valued for their physical attributes which decline as they get older.

So yes to OP's question.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

Men are valued for their game and knowledge. As a man gets older his knowledge accumulates and this knowledge usually leads to better financial success which is attractive to woman.

Girls are valued for their physical attributes which decline as they get older.

So yes to OP's question.

and they have a biological clock, are no longer fertile as they reach a certain age

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

Men are valued for their game and knowledge. As a man gets older his knowledge accumulates and this knowledge usually leads to better financial success which is attractive to woman.

Girls are valued for their physical attributes which decline as they get older.

So yes to OP's question.

and women are not as turned on, as attracted to looks, body, as much as we men are?