Does it matter that some of you CAN'T get LAID?

[The College Jock]

I'm kinda glad some of you introverted guys can't get laid. Life isn't pretty, you just want to reap the rewards and not go through the ropes to get it.

You don't even enjoy the journey, let alone the end result.

Some of you just want to get the affirmation of being with a woman, instead of enjoying women.

It's a good thing that you can't get laid.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I'll bet you're in a frat aren't ya bruh.


But thanks for sharing your wisdom with all of us whom are below you. Gay post

 

[The College Jock]

I'll bet you're in a frat aren't ya bruh.

What does being in a frat have anything to do with banging chicks, Geed? (kappa-sig btw).

But thanks for sharing your wisdom with all of us whom are below you. Gay post

I'm not judging anyone here, but some of you know who you are. Who will NEVER get good at this, simply because it wasn't built for you. When I say that, I mean, you NEVER want to feel uncomfortable.

If you had the option of having EVERYTHING easy, you would take it, living a life of sterile use.

You don't strive for the competition, the game, the ups and downs. Then you get these type of guys getting sound advice from guys who do ENJOY THE RIDE, and then these leerqueers infest the boards with their unworthyness.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

I'm not judging anyone here,

I'm no English scholar, but I believe that's EXACTLY what you're doing.

these leerqueers infest the boards with their unworthynes

This is coming from a guy on a dating forum... about guys on a dating forum. Do I even need to say more for the point to be made?

 

[The College Jock]

This is coming from a guy on a dating forum... about guys on a dating forum. Do I even need to say more for the point to be made?

Didn't know this was a ''dating'' specific site. No points were acknowledged or made.

Nice try though.

Heh, thats the thing though. Touchy girl-guys on a forum lold.

 

[Huffman]

Hey man, don't waste your time hating on people you don't even know. Why waste breath on people that - as you say - are already beneath you?

 

[The College Jock]

Hey man, don't waste your time hating on people you don't even know. Why waste breath on people that - as you say - are already beneath you?

NO. I see it liketalking to my little brother.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Didn't know this was a ''dating'' specific site. No points were acknowledged or made.

Not sure if you've browsed around here, but it is a dating forum dedicated to several different topics with the over-arching idea that it'll all improve our interactions with women. I guess that's not why you're on here though. Speaking of that, why are you on here, if it's not related to dating?

Nice try though.

Heh, thats the thing though. Touchy girl-guys on a forum lold.

Wow, maybe I should reply with some name-calling too. That'll really boost my self esteem and make you feel emasculated. That would really make my night. Speaking of which, nana-nana-boo-boo you smell like doo-doo.

I think I get your original point that many men are more interested in the idea of women than women themselves, and that those men are unwilling to sacrifice some of their self-protecting egos to get out there and lose some before they win some.

I just disagree with the delivery.

 

[ArcBound]

I'll bet you're in a frat aren't ya bruh.

Andddd what's wrong with a fraternity again? I'm in one.

I'm not judging anyone here, but some of you know who you are. Who will NEVER get good at this, simply because it wasn't built for you. When I say that, I mean, you NEVER want to feel uncomfortable.

If you had the option of having EVERYTHING easy, you would take it, living a life of sterile use.

You don't strive for the competition, the game, the ups and downs.

Agree 100% with this. On this forum you always see people who have been around for years since like 2003 and still can't do anything. And reading their posts you understand they never get out of their comfort zone and change their bad habits. Then you always get the guys coming in with the "Why do we have to work to get women blah blah blah" b!tching but not changing anything.

I used to be like that. Wanting to be socially accepted by everyone and be able to get chicks. All without doing any work... but I realized that's unrealistic. So I pushed myself out of my comfort zone everyday: physically I would go harder, socially I would literally force myself to be extroverted and do something new and unexpected that I would never do before, mentally I would push myself to study and learn both from this forum and in school.

And guess what? Now I have large groups of friends in and out of my fraternity, I get girls, I maintain my GPA and I'm jacked. People look at my end result and they go whoah what a lucky guy. But the funny thing is, I learned the harder I work, the luckier I get. You can bash College Jock all you want but what he speaks I see on this forum every day.

 

[comic_relief]

meh, i get laid on a pretty regular basis and have had three girlfriends over the years with a couple of ONS.

I also remember when I couldn't get anything and know how hard it was. Your delivery is terrible AND is dangerous to newbies. Play nice please :rockon:

- comic_relief

 

[Maxtro]

How can one enjoy the journey when you keep dieing of dysentery?

The result appears to be amazing and it's the only reason why I'm even on this trail.

What's wrong with wanting the affirmation of being with a woman?

Yeah being uncomfortable sucks, but having to deal with it is a fact of life.

I've been on this board a very long time, most will say too long. And from how it looks on the outside, have made very little progress. But that only depends on what one considers progress to be, and what level I was at when I first started.

It's not easy starting from the absolute bottom and having to work your way up.

 

[Huffman]

How can one enjoy the journey when you keep dieing of dysentery?

The result appears to be amazing and it's the only reason why I'm even on this trail.

What's wrong with wanting the affirmation of being with a woman?

Yeah being uncomfortable sucks, but having to deal with it is a fact of life.

I've been on this board a very long time, most will say too long. And from how it looks on the outside, have made very little progress. But that only depends on what one considers progress to be, and what level I was at when I first started.

It's not easy starting from the absolute bottom and having to work your way up.

Bro, I've read some of your recent posts and maybe you should make a new account here, so people don't instantly lose all hope when trying to give you advice.

 

[Gray The Prince]

I actually agree with you to an extent. Plus the Kappa Sig chapter at my college has boring-ass parties lol.

 

[Maxtro]

Bro, I've read some of your recent posts and maybe you should make a new account here, so people don't instantly lose all hope when trying to give you advice.

That's something I'll consider.

"Maxtro" just probably scares people away.

The main reason I've kept using this account is that someday I want to show the world that I could change.

 

[rocket87]

pretty lame thread, most likely another reverse-role e-peen display of worthlessness, next

 

[synergy1]

Some dude from KS paying attention to a bunch of online virgins not getting laid? shocking? not really.

keep reaching for that rainbow bro.

 

[goodlistener]

is it really ok not gettling laid?

 

[Iceberg]

Andddd what's wrong with a fraternity again? I'm in one.

Just kinda seems like you're paying to make friends and go to party. Which is something that I did for free.

I never understood those things. What if you flat out don't like some of the members of your frat? Do you still have to pretend to be friends?

The way I see it, if I have to wear a t-shirt with some symbol on it just so you can know that I'm your friend, then I'm probably not a very good friend.

 

[ArcBound]

Just kinda seems like you're paying to make friends and go to party. Which is something that I did for free.
Fee is small + because your in a fraternity does not exclude all your other friends + other benefits. Also do community service and marathon runs, and maintain the highest GPA on campest in addition to "Just kinda seems like you're paying to make friends and go to party."

I never understood those things. What if you flat out don't like some of the members of your frat? Do you still have to pretend to be friends?
If you flat out didn't like a member or a member didn't like you, you wouldn't be in the fraternity. That's why there is rushing and pledging.

The way I see it, if I have to wear a t-shirt with some symbol on it just so you can know that I'm your friend, then I'm probably not a very good friend.
If you think that's what a fraternity is about then your mistaken.

Most fraternities actually benefit the uni/ community. It's the ones with retarded pledge processes that give the rest a bad name.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I am in a fraternity. But I never tell anyone that I am unless I'm trying to get them to go to an event. Most the girls I mess with they find out at some point and always ask me why I didn't tell them I was a Sigma. I'm like you never asked.