Does her friend want me?

HotDog

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How can you tell if a woman is trying to set you up with her friend? I have a girl that I like from work, she has also said she is warm for my form but she is married. Now I eat lunch with her and we talk she flirts Kinos etc. So she starts asking me to come to her parties at her house. The only people I would know at her parties are Her and another female co-worker of ours. So I am thinking if she wants me why in the heck is she asking me to come to her parties with her husband there. Well we never cheated she said she would if she got me alone and something got started, but I am not even trying to have more drama in my life plus I like to consider myself a religous person with morals.

So we are having a company meeting and here I am sitting across the room from this married chick and her friend in question. And they say hey come sit over here so I go over and the married woman gets up and sits behind me and I am next to her friend. So the married woman is kicking me and kinoing me but her friend just sits there. Well the next day somebody tells me that the married womans friend has a crush on me. Now I am not sure that I can convey my udder disgust for her friend in words but this chick is Bad Bad Bad and I mean Bad looking and she must weigh in at 300 plus pounds. So being the baby that I am I just freaked out and ran yes ran to the office where this married chick works and said I hear your friend has a crush on me and I basicly spazed out and went on and on about how bad I think she is. Well the married woman looks at me and says if she had a crush on you I would be the first to tell you because I would like to see your reaction. So I don't know if this is true or not I am not sure if my co-workers said she had a crush on me because I sat next to her???


Now I just basicly put this in the back of my mind. This happened in June well this married woman is telling me about this party she is having and tells me I can come then she says Jenny is going to be there. Jenny is the ugly friend. I then ask what does Jenny there have anything to do with anything and she just ignores me. Now I can't really think of any signs that this girl has shown me that she likes me. The one thing I did notice wether it has anything to do with anything or not is ever since I made that comment on what does Jenny being at the party have anything to do with anything. Jenny now says to me we are friends. Jenny however does come over to my office and talks to me on occasion so I don't know what to think. The married woman never says why don't you and Jenny go out. Nor does she talk her up to me...Please help me out here.....


Now some of you people may be thinking why is this guy so paranoid about this. Well if you ever seen Jenny you will understand...:D
 

Howie Farkes

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What do you need help with?

Summary - as far as I can tell.

1. Married HB tells you she would do you in a second if she wasn't married.

- This is a well known "Attention Wh0re" ploy for married women - have a collection of drooling puppy dogs hanging around waiting to get a piece of her ass - except they never will 'cause she's even more unattainable than a "queen bee" girl.

2. Married HB may or may not be trying to set you up with her ugly, fat friend.

- So what!?! You don't wanna go out with her - then DON"T.

So to conclude - nothing's gonna happen with the married woman because she's married and not only do you have ethical problems with that she was probably only enjoying the attention gained from the flirting. And you're not sure if you're being set up with the ugly chick? Well until it is made absolutely clear to you that that IS what's happening don't stress it.
 

dietzcoi

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If you are not going to F@ck the married woman (which I advise against) then why go to the party at all? Why even hang out with her and her friend? Just stay away from them.

BTW, eating lunch with , kinoing, etc a married woman who you are not going to f@ck is big time AFC. Why are you wasting your time? You are becoming one of her supplicants. As Howie stated, she is just another one of those women who likes to collect a crew of AFC servants to entertain her and do things for her while she does NOTHING in return. It makes me sick to see it and I see it often. (NOTE when I was AFC I did it myself... sickening!!)

Just say NO to anything to do with that woman. Bad, Bad Bad. Ignore her. Don't be her little servant boy!!!

Dietzcoi
 
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