Guys don't flame me for this as I'm taking a devils advocate approach here. Bear with me, and tell me what you think is the best course of action for me.
Ok, I've just recently started talking to girls, and although never dated before, I am starting to make real friendship out of girls, but the way I see it here on this forum, its wrong, guys aren't supposed to look for friendships...
According to this forum, its only about everyday trying to score new girls? So does this make me an AFC? Right now, the biggest concern for me is to make a long term connection and for the first time preserve friendship past a school year, I don't want to end interaction fast, the girl is looking for motivating character as she looks for job and i'm doing that admirably, but how bad does this look from Don Juan perspective.
Is it important to make slow self growth? not rush things? or is this just rubbish? Is having a girl to talk to a bad thing? I can't actually talk about the stuff that goes around here, but I'm starting to understand girls emotions, and how to play them to my advantage, but is it all about intimacy?
Is it natural to move from social aspect to intimacy part, not with the same girl offcourse, but will friendly interaction with one girl lead to self growth and more intimate interaction from my part? Does having a girl to talk to benefit confidence?
Ok, I've just recently started talking to girls, and although never dated before, I am starting to make real friendship out of girls, but the way I see it here on this forum, its wrong, guys aren't supposed to look for friendships...
According to this forum, its only about everyday trying to score new girls? So does this make me an AFC? Right now, the biggest concern for me is to make a long term connection and for the first time preserve friendship past a school year, I don't want to end interaction fast, the girl is looking for motivating character as she looks for job and i'm doing that admirably, but how bad does this look from Don Juan perspective.
Is it important to make slow self growth? not rush things? or is this just rubbish? Is having a girl to talk to a bad thing? I can't actually talk about the stuff that goes around here, but I'm starting to understand girls emotions, and how to play them to my advantage, but is it all about intimacy?
Is it natural to move from social aspect to intimacy part, not with the same girl offcourse, but will friendly interaction with one girl lead to self growth and more intimate interaction from my part? Does having a girl to talk to benefit confidence?