Oh gentlemen! You forget that there are two worlds: the correct one and the bizzarre realm known as Womaniverse.
If you happen to stumble into this dimension, you will notice that it is governed by three forces: matter, sexuality, and shopping. It is MATTER because that is what woman is, fat deposits and milk sacs. It is SEXUALITY because woman is entirely sexual, the family, the husband, and so on are all within the sexual realm. It is SHOPPING because it is value, women wish to be desired, to be filled with thought, life, and purpose like an intellectual blow-up doll who is now currently deflated.
In our universe, being a player is BAD. Why? Because it shows a lack of self-control and lack of priority. If you cannot control your weakness for women, how do you expect to go anywhere in life?
In Womaniverse, the opposite is true. Being a player gives you ADMIRATION and PRAISE. Women do not understand the concept of self-improvement. If they see a man undergoing it, they will whisper, "You need to enjoy life" or "You are gay." They do this because you are not giving them VALUE. A player being a player often lets self-improvement slip by. It doesn't hurt him because women don't notice it. All they know is that he gets women and that is more than enough to be qualified.
In OUR universe, being a player is seen as not a good thing usually in light as a player to women as an alcholic is to beer. But in Womaniverse, you rise in status the more of a player you seem to be.
Wyldfire will, undoubtedly, agree with me. Women want a man who has his pick of the litter. Why do you think lawyers and doctors get girls? It is because women KNOW they have their choice of women. In the same way, a player has HIS choice of women. Yet, if he chooses to spend time with HER then that means, in the bizzare realm of Womaniverse, that SHE IS SPECIAL. A player giving her attention is seen to her as added VALUE to her.
Whisper, "Watch out, he is A PLAYER!" She will grin and say, "Then I will PLAY HIM!"
One of the female fantasies is that they change a player to love only her. In the realm of Womaniverse, this is SOLELY because a guy who has his pick of the litter chose her IMPLYING that this woman is SO GREAT, SO WONDERFUL that she BEAT all these other girls he could have picked.
All men are players; it just depends on how you play. EMBRACE THIS ASPECT. Nice Guy Fantasy Land is over. AFC Wonderland is gone.
Women are very frustrated with this truth. In Womaniverse, women would naturally become sluts. BUT because there is that real universe, that slut factor comes into play. This is why they tell 'ol Pook, "You guys get to sleep around and your worth rises but if we do the same, it lowers!"
If girls think you seem like a player, this is good. It is BETTER then being seen as 'innocent' or 'decent'. ("But Pook, that don't make sense!" Silence! This is Womaniverse we are speaking of!)
If you had a couple years of youth drained by a girlfriend, you and other guys would correctly say, "Perhaps I could have invested that time in better ways." Women will say, "You have experience!" and clap that as virtue. The concept of self-improvement seems entirely lost when women view men.
No, being seen as a player IS NOT going to hurt you with women.
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Pook
As you think, you shall become.
The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all.
What you do today echos a lifetime.
