Does curvy = fat??

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I'm doing the tinder thing, swipe right-right-right and see what women bite. About 80% of these girls are over weight and you can tell right away. But I have been messaging this one girl she doesn't look fat but mayyybe. She describes herself as curvy and liking fitness, cycling, and blah blah blah. So what do you think -- curvy as in sexy a$s? or curvy as in fat a$s?
 

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Curvy just means there fat but not a whale. Lots of fat chicks like to say they are curvy because it sounds better and makes them feel better about themselves. If this chick doesn't have any full body pics and only has ones from the shoulders up, then she is fat. Women that are skinny like to show off that they have a nice body, so they will post a full body pic.
 

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Young OG said:
Curvy just means there fat but not a whale. Lots of fat chicks like to say they are curvy because it sounds better and makes them feel better about themselves. If this chick doesn't have any full body pics and only has ones from the shoulders up, then she is fat. Women that are skinny like to show off that they have a nice body, so they will post a full body pic.
Are we talking Jennifer Lopez fat a$s? Because I wouldn't mind that. She has a pic of her body and doesn't look fat but it's still at kind of a hard angle and her face looks skinny. So she definitely isn't showing off her body but maybe she just isn't a sloot. Like when I think of curvy I think of a girl with a nice body but to women maybe it means that they are a fat ass.
 
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Jlo is one of the very most beautiful women who ever walked this earth. KK also, altho both of them have at times let themselves get chubby.
 

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women lie to themselves...so curvy could mean anything from kim kardashian body type (which is what curvy is) to a chick thats 5'3" and 185 lbs. No full body pic and she's hiding something
 

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The definition of the word "curvy" has been so horribly distorted by women. I've dated 120 pound women who I considered to be genuinely curvy.

Today's definition of "curvy" means "covered in rolls and flaps of skin filled with fat deposits"

When you're doing online dating, beware of women who are "average" or have "a little extra". It's either an understatement of what she actually looks like, or it's a reflection of very low self-esteem.
 

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Curvy=I think I look good but I'm really just fat

BBW=I know I'm fat but I'm going to convince myself you still want me
 

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I think curvy truly means big boobs, thin waist, big hips and booty, but yet reasonably normal looking arms & legs and a thinner face (no double chins). I find these girls VERY sexy. One of my old FWB's was 5'1" & 135 lbs with measurements of 34DDD-26-42 and she looked amazing to me. She had good genes & did hit the gym so everything was proportioned nicely, "all the right junk in all the right places" I guess you could say.

But yeah like others have said chicks who have rolls, cottage cheese, and double/triple chins will call themselves curvy. They are delusional, if they have any of those physical characteristics they are just fat.
 

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Everyone,,,I said phuck it and met up with her and... SHE WAS FAT!!!! Ahhhaaahahaa..... This is my face :(. Social experiment but not going to make that mistake again. They hijacked a word, curvy is a positive thing but women use it as if men talking about curvy women are talking about them :rolleyes: totally agree they are self deceiving.
 

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MountainSlide said:
Everyone,,,I said phuck it and met up with her and... SHE WAS FAT!!!! Ahhhaaahahaa..... This is my face :(. Social experiment but not going to make that mistake again. They hijacked a word, curvy is a positive thing but women use it as if men talking about curvy women are talking about them :rolleyes: totally agree they are self deceiving.
Sorry to hear lol. If I find their weight/body type to be suspect, I'll just straight up ask for them to take a full body selfie that day and send it via text. You were probably fooled by older photos.
 

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duped by an undercover fattie. Its happened to me. Last time I did a little internet searching and found her fb page, and yep she was a fattie who listed her body type as "average". yeah, average for a gorilla. a week later I shut down my match profile. it was the final nail in the coffin. OLD is officially a no go at this point.
 

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GS750 said:
duped by an undercover fattie. Its happened to me. Last time I did a little internet searching and found her fb page, and yep she was a fattie who listed her body type as "average". yeah, average for a gorilla. a week later I shut down my match profile. it was the final nail in the coffin. OLD is officially a no go at this point.
Man I searched for her fb page and I guess the fact I couldn't find it is suspect. This other hot girl I talk to, doesn't have mutual friends, and I found her page no problem.
 

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Women today who claim they're curvy are fat. The word curvy is not supposed to be fat for women having curves.
 

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J.lo is not one of the most beautiful women walking this earth, ever been to Puerto Rico or a Puerto Rican parade in Chicago or New York? There are girls who make J.lo look like a 1. No exaggeration.

Curvy does not equal fat, Beyonce is curvy. Kim K is curvy, they are not fat. White men in general tend to think everything is fat. You guys like women who are to damn skinny, I blame the modeling industry run by the gays who pounded that subliminal homo message in to the mainstream media and got people thinking anorexic or skinny is attractive, homos making models starve themselves...smh
 

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If a woman is trying to hide her body from you, you can assume its for a reason.

Truly 'attractive' curvy chicks (few and far in between for me, but occasional) will post pics of themselves...

If not, theyre fat bro and youd probably be grossed out meeting her. Srsly
 

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There is a difference between curvaceous and fat. Though many will 'confuse' the two.

Curvaceous is low fat, with feminine bone structure, i.e hips. Personally, I don't like a woman with no curve on her hips. Hourglass/pear shaped. This shape woman is often unduly insecure about being 'fat' when really there's nothing on her.

Fat is, well, just a blob really! Guts hanging over, saggy t!ts, skin folds where there shouldn't be, backboobs. Apple shaped. This shape woman will often mistakenly call herself curvaceous.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Fat is, well, just a blob really! Guts hanging over, saggy t!ts, skin folds where there shouldn't be, backboobs. Apple shaped. This shape woman will often deceptively call herself curvaceous.
Fixed! They know what they're doing when they overrate themselves.
 

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