does canceling text after a non response to your text save some face?

[pete101]

i have a meet up after i go out tomorrow night with this girl but i DLV'd myself with some stupid afc moves earlier tonight on the phone so now i dont think it's on. im going to text her tomorrow what time to meet me (assuming it's still on) but if she doesn't get back to me would canceling save some face?

it's assumed we're meeting tomorrow as agreed tonight but after what i did i dont think she'll reply, if she doesn't and i cancel on the assumption it's on regardless of a response of 'hey forget what i said about tonight, i can't make it, something came up. i'll call u tomorrow. see ya.'

if i dont call will she wonder what's up? i'm already in a position where i've lost so much value. or should i remove the bit about calling tomorrow completely?

 

[Evolve]

Phone her, don't communicate by text!

Tell her you would like to meet her as you arranged. If she agrees good if not don't contact her. You need to be the guy she goes on dates with not the guy who's always texting/phoning pestering for dates.

 

[pete101]

i will phone her first but she'll be at work and i know won't be able to take the call or will be like 'hey i'll call u in a bit' then hours on end she's not calling me till she finishes work.. by then it's too late to make the arrangements.

what i'm saying is by cancelling with a text after she doesn't respond to the initial one help me save face?

 

[ARrocket]

Either 1) Call her and confirm the date, and if she declines, ignore her for a while (or forever, depending on your relationship with this girl) or 2) Text her right away with "sorry, can't make it tomorrow, I'll catch you later" or something to that effect. Then don't bother with her for a couple weeks. And at that time, get your **** together

 

[sprint]

eh... I tried that once. girl never responded to call so I canceled with a text. needless to say I never heard from her again. I knew I would never see her again, most likely, so I didn't really care at that point. I'm not sure if it saved me any face. I would just let it go if I could do it again.

Just don't do anything. Call and if she doesn't pick up then wait a while (weeks) before trying again to set something up. Make it seem like nothing happened.

 

[DonJuan11]

i have a meet up after i go out tomorrow night with this girl but i DLV'd myself with some stupid afc moves earlier tonight on the phone so now i dont think it's on. im going to text her tomorrow what time to meet me (assuming it's still on) but if she doesn't get back to me would canceling save some face?

it's assumed we're meeting tomorrow as agreed tonight but after what i did i dont think she'll reply, if she doesn't and i cancel on the assumption it's on regardless of a response of 'hey forget what i said about tonight, i can't make it, something came up. i'll call u tomorrow. see ya.'

if i dont call will she wonder what's up? i'm already in a position where i've lost so much value. or should i remove the bit about calling tomorrow completely?

Dude maybe you should forget dating and work on getting some game. Even if she does agree to go out with you tomorrow night, it sounds like you may mess up badly again very soon.

 

[pete101]

yeah i have.. i tried to confirm for tonight so i called her first.. she's at work in a meeting but picks up t hen says she cant take the call.. i say should i text instead she doesn't hear me so i proceed to text her an hour later to confirm details.

you should never apologise for calling too much if you were acting too needy the day before right? i think i made the mistake of apologising for being full on cos i thought it show how i may appear and didn't mean to be that way.

anyway she hasn't got back to me and im fed up with her cos she was suppose to be an easy regular lay but she's making it too difficult for me. im gona call her once more cos i need an answer sooner rather than later then i'll cancel on her.

 

[Stud No1]

yeah i have.. i tried to confirm for tonight so i called her first.. she's at work in a meeting but picks up t hen says she cant take the call.. i say should i text instead she doesn't hear me so i proceed to text her an hour later to confirm details.

you should never apologise for calling too much if you were acting too needy the day before right? i think i made the mistake of apologising for being full on cos i thought it show how i may appear and didn't mean to be that way.

anyway she hasn't got back to me and im fed up with her cos she was suppose to be an easy regular lay but she's making it too difficult for me. im gona call her once more cos i need an answer sooner rather than later then i'll cancel on her.

WTF?

So since the last thread, you've rang her, got fobbed off, then texted her (Did she reply??)

and now you're going to ring her again


Man!

If she hasnt got back to you within a few hours of that original phone call, then she's gone. Forget game, thats bad manners you don't need to know any "game rules" to realise when someone's showing bad manners and taking you as super low priority. Do you think continuing to ring is going to make you high priority or something? quite the opposite


If she doesn't get back to you, thats her for good in fact if i were you even if she did ring about tonight tell her since she didn't confirm sooner you've made other plans..

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Seriously some of these next generation b!tches don't answer the phone they have like social anxiety or something. Text.