Does being persistent actually turn them off (HB9s and above)?

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I think they are probably fed up with guys chasing them for too long. To them, It's just desperation IMO. Not that much different.


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Paradox of SS:

To get women you have to use game and approach. But to get women you have to act indifferent and like you don't give a fug
 

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skinnyguy said:
Paradox of SS:

To get women you have to use game and approach. But to get women you have to act indifferent and like you don't give a fug
Not really.

If the girl finds you attractive then you have(or can) to use game and approach while acting indifferent etc. to maintain interest and all that.. If you do it on a girl that doesn't even find you attractive then you're boned.
 

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Define persistent?
Persistence at all stages. Approaching, arranging the first date and finally, escalation.


For example you approach a HB9 and she completely ignores your existence. Or hell, some of them even scream at you, which I shrug it off with giggling or asking her to stop crying. Do you look like a fool if you keep talking to her?
 

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Well then I have to lower my standards personally. Probably down to HB4-5s. I thought being a tad stubborn during the approach would be OK. Should I give up chasing the hot ones? This is how I look, sort of :
http://www.spainisculture.com/export/sites/cultura/multimedia/galerias/autores/antonio_banderas_elmundo.jpg


However I'm really short, around 170cm. Also my voice and speakings sounds whiny and weird, IE I feel a little stuck sometimes not knowing what to say.

This is how I answererd when a girl told me she had a BF:
HB8.5: I have a BF. He wouldn't be happy seeing us chatting.
Me: Oh poor girl. Only one BF? You should have 2 at least, increase your options.
HB8.5::eek:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't be fooled, they love it. The more orbiters and persistent chumps they have blowin up their phone, the happier they feel. Even if it's for a few short minutes. The more they feel like popular Hollywood starlets the better. What else do you think a girl does the bulk of her waking hours?? Calculating structural strengths of bridges on her new iPhone??
 

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VladPatton said:
Don't be fooled, they love it. The more orbiters and persistent chumps they have blowin up their phone, the happier they feel. Even if it's for a few short minutes.
Oh, I'm sure they love it. I'm sure it makes them feel happy and validated. The question should be does it make them feel attraction?

Anyway, I agree with Espi, that article that he linked to is a good one.
 

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zekko said:
The question should be does it make them feel attraction?
They could develop feelings in the long run
 
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