Does being a jerk really work? I dont agree

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Take it from a jerk who honed his skill to a fine art: Jerk mentality works like crazy.

Yes, jerks show their nice side from time to time, but if your an honest, charming jerk (sounds like a oxymoron), u can get away with anything.

Show ur temper, but kiss her afterwards. Hug her gently, but suddenly throw her on the bed and take her clothes off. Slap her ass, then smile and hug her.

It's the mix that works best, although you have to lean on the jerk spectrum. And when they get mad at you, you know you did something right ;)
 

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Distant Light said:
You have to read A2damir's FRs I sh!t you not probably the best guy who does C&F and thats 80% of his game everything else is his inner game, body language, and voice. This guy uses C&F to the point where you would think he is a *******. C&F is not said over and over again because C&F is not a routine. C&F a tool that you would use, and even if you do say the same C&F once inawhile its most likely not the same girl. When I'm doing C&F it isn't fake its natural and congruent. Before I wasn't to into that C&F stuff, but after reading his FRs, you actually have to laugh because its funny, and the girls sometimes get pissed but they can't leave because they know they like it.

Real Life Example
There was a Nice guy friend and a Jerk Friend who both messed with the same girl. Now the jerk fuvked the girl while the nice guy didn't and will never fuvk her.

My jerk friend I used to sit and watch him run heavy C&F on this girl and she used to play like she hates it, call him an *******, stuff like that, saying he hates him, etc. He did this for awhile and I even used to bust on her because she knew she liked him so I would bust on her and DHV my friend. The end results he fuvked her and she even called him one time when she supposedly was cutting school with nice guy, but nice guy and her weren't together they was at home talking on the phone and internet.

Now Nice guy have been speaking to her on the phone for 7 months 5-6 hours a day on the phone, not including school. He walks her places, bought the girl's sister some stuff for her bday. I've stood there and seen her yell at him, I've seen her draggin him around telling him its time to go and he would leave us. I've caught him ditching us to walk around with the girl. I've gave him long inner game talks and he said he would change this summer. Friend comes back and tells me the AFC stuff that he currently is doing, how they still talk on the phone. He has told me that they onced talked about when they would fuvk each other. (Who the hell plans when they have there first fuvk thats some real holding power of sex, which should not be something to use as leverage.)

In this real life example you notice Nice guy is still trying to fuvk her and I've told him to give up 1 month after they started talking and he thought he would fuvk her then, 6 months later he is still at square one. He never even kissed her yet. Jerk on the other hand hasn't done sh!t for her, doesn't talk to her, but she can call him up anytime for sex because she has tried. She also used to be fuvking some other guy in the time span that Nice guy was trying to talk to her, she would cut school to get fuvked by that guy. So tell me who would you want to be in this case? Nice guy or Jerk?
I wouldn't like to be either to tell you the truth, the good guy is a wimp a loser and a wuss that is too frightened to make a move, where as the jerk is a fake who is only getting a fu-ck because there are very few true AlphaMales around, both are losers, both are pathetic, but one is much more bolder than the other, I am way above both of these guys. :cool:
 

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It's not about being a "jerk" to get women and keep them, it's about having a spine and a backbone. And of course, to be sexual. Take it from a rAFC. I was the "nice guy" all the time. That meant, I would suplicate to the HB's, I would do almlost anything they asked, even though it went against my interests many times. I would overlook anything an HB did to pi$$ me off, because I didn't want to confront her and call her on he bad behaviour.

Now, I don't do that anymore, I stand up for myself, I will call an HB if she does something to pi$$ me off. Case in point: I had a BBQ at my place last Saturday, an HB was there. Basically, HB and her friend took off right after the BBQ. Yesterday, I called her on it, told her she was a "knife and forker" and really pi$$ed her off. But, I let her know it pi$$ed me off, before I would just let it slide.

You don't need to be a jerk, but you need a spine and backbone, stand up for yourself!
 

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yep a backbone is a hugh requirement in attracting a lady. i remember i was at a party and this girl was standing right beside the fridge and she asked me to get a drink for her. i said "well since your standing next to the fridge why don't you get it yourself and grab me a beer while your at it." and she tested me again at the bar by asking me to buy her a drink. and i said no and i seen a girl across the room sitting looking pretty and i said but i'll by her one and i sent the waiter over with a drink. the girl testing me,was all over me the rest of the night. have a spine boys it will benefit you greatly!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Guys by default exist in extremes, that's what they know. They are either supplicating "nice guys" or "bad boy" jerks. My guess it's easier to be either of those than walking the tightrope in between. It's that type of "finesse" that many women enjoy more than the nice guys or jerks.
Agreed, it's all about balance. Nobody wants a girl or guy completely obsessed and fawning all over them like a nice guy or girl and nobody wants a girl or guy to be a complete d!ck head 24/7. The more I deal with women the more I see that they aren't really much different from men. Ok so she wants a guy that busts on her a little and doesn't act like a servant chump, big surprise? If a girl treated you like you were god's gift, you would get bored REAL quick too. Just stop being such a damn wimp..that's all that's really needed.
 

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Yes, balance. For a while there I was so c&f with some girls that they thought I wasn't interested and would ignore me. Whoops!

And you really have to watch who you use c&f with. It's great on really hot girls who get hit on all the time... but with a girl who has more self-esteem issues c&f can be a disaster. Trust me.

It's all a tightrope, and it builds with experience. I'm getting better, but it's more work than I thought it would be.
 

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realsmoothie said:
...It's all a tightrope, and it builds with experience. I'm getting better, but it's more work than I thought it would be.
Trust me, all the work will be worth it.
 

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It's easy to make up nasty words for people who get laid more than you.

It's a lot harder to go and get what you want out of life.
 

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My goodness guys thanks for the advice. I'm gladly taking all this in.
 

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I noticed being a Jerk=bad rep so i still dont know. Wat if ur a nice decent guy whose not a wimp and is charming and such
 
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