Does a Master DJ have chemistry with every girl?

[PianoGuy33]

What is your guys opinion of chemistry? I've only had chemistry with 1 hot girl ever, but I met her over the summer briefly and she lives in a different state. I've had a tun of chemistry with ugly girls, and I've had chemistry with a BPD chick, but that was just because she has BPD. What is your guys opinion of chemistry? Is it overrated or is to real? Should I just have chemistry with every hot girl?

 

[Purefilth]

Not all of them bro. You can feel good with many, but sparks only fly with a few.

And then the sparks may not last. I think maybe 4 girls I've had real chemistry and "feelings" and these I made into LTRs.

 

[Mr. Bond]

No matter how good you are, you will not get them all.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Attraction is different than chemistry, a good looking guy can potentially attract a good percentage of girl he deals with but the number of them with which there will be chemistry is critically lower.

The same is for us, I would bang maybe 30% of the girls I have around but probably only with <5% there is some serious chemistry.

 

[Zarky]

Even Ted Williams, the greatest hitter of all time, failed 60% of the time.

 

[The Gambler]

Everyone who responded above is 100% correct....

NO, NO NO...... NO!!!

Do not worry about the hugely broad category known as "women." Hell, it's really no different than looking to buy a car. When you decide to look, you are focusing in on the type you're interested in, right? If you want to purchase a Jeep, don't worry about what's posted in the Acura section.

Your style, attitude and vibe should be honed to find what YOU are looking for. Speaking of style, many guys here still underestimate the importance of their appearance. Simply put, this is a woman's first clue regarding your compatibility together. You get to choose whether you want to dress up as a Jeep or an Acura -- then do it with style.

The Gambler

 

[zekko]

I don't know about "master DJs", but I've noticed that with a lot of naturals, they will garner attention from most of the women as soon as they walk into the room, the girls just light up.

But yeah, I don't think you can have chemistry with everyone.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Part of chemistry is PHYSICAL attraction. Being DJ is irrelevant if one or both of you does not find the other attractive.

 

[FairShake]

There is a difference between charm and connection.

A charming guy can have every woman laughing and flirting with him. He has "it" and they can't get enough. They have a way of talking and looking that women love, literally from 8 to 80. But they can't fvck them all. There are logistics involved as well as two people's compatibility.

A girl has to WANT what you're selling. Just like in sales. You can have a line of bullsh!t a mile long that is music to a client's ears. Sometimes even enough to buy it. But if they don't want or need what you are selling it's that much harder to sell. In dating you may be able to have them smiling all night long but if you are too short, too tall, too ugly, talk too much, aren't interesting to them it won't work out.

 

[sageproduct]

Hell no. Not even a majority.