Doc writes from the situation of a few year ago
The Doc was just responding to a common past chick reaction on an initial date that "he was all hands" or "he was just trying to cope a feel (an old saying you young guys won't fully understand)."
There was a time, not too long ago, that guys were always grabbing a girl's ass, squeezing her thigh, touching her breasts etc.
Today's Kino is much more sophisticated, very effective and an absolute must with most women.
The touch on her forearm, touching her back, stroking her back, touching her shoulder, brushing her hair back, rubbing the back of her neck, touching her anywhere other than the usual butt, bush and tits does so many good things for a girl's attraction to you that it is a must.
Doc is just a little behind the times.
Save your sexual spot touching for when you have more repoire and want to heat her up for the deal. Stay away from these areas in the meantime but max out the Kino otherwise.