You don't want to hear my story.
So you don’t think bad boy with tattoos and criminal records beat up their girlfriends?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
yeeeeeeeeeeep.. "Women need men". True statement.
I don't need them for sex either. Go figure.
Oh you mean those bad boys wannabes?
It means that to be manly, one must not bully someone who is obviously weaker.
Why do you even care what women think or do?
Not that I agree with what many of the guys here are saying, but you have to understand what they mean. They aren’t able to word it correctly to you. Basically, we all know not to hit a woman. It’s been pounded into us for centuries and we’ve all gotten disciplined by it at some point or another (physically...). Well, if a man decides to forego the social rules prohibiting him from doing that, then you have to realize that maybe there is a real reason for them to hit the woman. Example? My sister almost cracked my skull open once when I was 8 because I ate some microwaveable burritos when we were supposed to go out to eat. She didn’t see what was wrong with it. I was on the floor bleeding from my head. My dad blew up at her, but I still got smacked across the mouth because he said it was all my fault this whole thing happened. Had that been my brother, I probably would have tried hurting her.
Yeah I notice this too. The problem is that they cannot see the whole picture because some part of their BASIC social skills are lacking. Hence their limited/narrow-minded views. That’s why I always read their username before their post. You know who is legit and who isn’t.
Of course. Your life practically revolves around this sort of thing now.
Well most people can say the same thing about men in their lives too because they don’t understand women lol. The thing that actually IS sad is that once they begin to, this is who they become. That angry, bitter person. Why? Because there is either something that by societal standards is inherently wrong with women, or because society is wrong. Or both. I’m not angry and bitter about any of it anymore really. But that is only because have completely detached myself from societal standards and have grown up and developed with this knowledge. In other words, it’s become apart of me now. But for them, it still isn’t. The anger and bitterness comes from the feeling of betrayal. There’s a lot more that goes into it than just that, but it’s a huge part of it.
That stems from a massive ego. They still want to believe that they are right and refuse to see another perspective. Partially because they’d also have to face themselves (their TRUE selves) and that can be EXTREMELY painful for someone to do. Ask me how I know
Cheers
She thinks that "social work" is actual work. All she's doing is sitting at a desk.
The fact that there isn't much support out there for men in divorce situations demonstrates the difference between the genders. Women are more naturally social and supportive, I could see how they would work a lot harder to make sure there are systems in place to support themselves in times of trouble. Men are not so naturally nurturing. And when men do want to help other men, it's often a very tough love type of situation, tell them to "sink or swim". There aren't enough guys like your colleague.
Whenever I hear of a man beating a woman, my first question is "what did she do to piss him off?"
