Do you think that chicks that always seem to get men that have erectile issues are just plain ugly, thereby causing their men to underperform?

[MatureDJ]

I've had situations where I was with a smoking hot female and yet I couldn't keep myself hard enough to slip on a condom... yes, it was quite embarrassing for me.

In general, I can't wear a condom anymore. I'd prefer the woman to manually rub me than putting a condom on and putting it into the jackpot.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Regarding the single case, she is 36 so hardly a hot piece of treasure...and generally its not the top dogs that hit on such old women.
Personally I find it hard to get turned on from post wall women, let alone get intimate with them.

In my opinion and experience, most issues happened when the girl was either nothing special in terms of looks or when the girl stressed the hell out of me.

I never had erection problems but I had the shot&run problem which is when your body wants to drop your load asap then leave.
This basially happened with most girls that annoyed me or stressed me, its like my brain wants to cvm to get a return out of the effort but nothing more with them.

Never had any problem with hot girls even in stressful environments if the girl had great look and didnt create problems, I got plenty of action in my own office with my boss near-by but failed to have decent s3x with annoying girls in the peace of my bedroom.

I recall a night with a girl met in a club, face was nothing special but the body was amazing, fitness model type and a stone hard ass.
Banged her like a jackhammer with no concern at all...no change in hell of that with other less attractive ones.

Also many of us dont realize that men sexuality have a ON/OFF switch, many times Im turned on but after I have to drive 15 min from the club to my home Im no more while women dont have this problem since they are more like a hoven to warm.

 

[metalwater]

some ED cures. In some cases, it is possible to convert nothing to larger and more durable than average.

Shockwave therapy. probably good for any guy, definitely good for older guys. actually fixes circulation issues and improves beyond the baseline. no need to pay big bucks, just buy a machine for a few hundred and doit yourself.

activities that can help
- hard running
- squat or leg press
- dead lift

diet
-keep stomach flat

vitamins that can make a difference.
- zinc
-Magnesium
-Boron
-L-Arginine
-Pygeum


heavier meds that help
- velvet bean (i put it in the heavy category because of what it can do, but is simple and cheap) this can fix some issues that are different cause than the other targets. brain signaling issues...
- tadalafil
- mesterolone (really understand this one before you use it if you really need it works wonders)

selection of partner
- really wants you or
- really doesn't want you
- avoid the middle ground.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

some ED cures. In some cases, it is possible to convert nothing to larger and more durable than average.

Shockwave therapy. probably good for any guy, definitely good for older guys. actually fixes circulation issues and improves beyond the baseline. no need to pay big bucks, just buy a machine for a few hundred and doit yourself.

activities that can help
- hard running
- squat or leg press
- dead lift

diet
-keep stomach flat

vitamins that can make a difference.
- zinc
-Magnesium
-Boron
-L-Arginine
-Pygeum


heavier meds that help
- velvet bean (i put it in the heavy category because of what it can do, but is simple and cheap) this can fix some issues that are different cause than the other targets. brain signaling issues...
- tadalafil
- mesterolone (really understand this one before you use it if you really need it works wonders)

selection of partner
- really wants you or
- really doesn't want you
- avoid the middle ground.

Basically. Don't get fat. Stay in good fitness. Have a babe your attracted to. Have a babe who likes you and isn't negative and the junk works.

 

[BeExcellent]

Bear in mind guys that I see men who are north of 48 years of age. Men in this age group have prostate things going on and often some degree of ED things going on.

If my recent LTR was sober he could go 5 to 7 times in a single overnight (and would go on the next day about how his anatomy was sore in a good way), but if he drank heavily he would have issues.

He was like this for the duration of the relationship and at times he would interrupt me midday for sex too, but if he drank too much or partied he’d have trouble. Once the alcohol wore off he was fine again.

The age related issues seem to crop up after age 45 in men. The ED pills help (according to my ex and other men I have heard discuss it), but lifting & keeping in shape helps tremendously too.

It’s along the lines of keeping muscle tone and avoiding injury...you can do it...it just requires more awareness of your health and your body and more commitment to keeping things working well.

Guys younger than 40 truly should not be having this issue...men in the age group I date are older and deal with this to some degree or other...whether with me or with a much younger gal. It’s not an attraction issue...it is a physiology issue...

 

[Lookatu]

It’s not an attraction issue...it is a physiology issue...

I'm one that went through a good solid few months of ED. I'm almost back to normal now but still not the same as I was before. Before I could get erect with anyone but now only certain gals can keep me consistently erect.

Here's a good way to tell if it's biological or psychological for guys.
Biological ED = No more waking up with morning wood - This is a key indicator
If you find yourself in this situation, you need to do whatever you can to up your testosterone(workout, eat healthy, cut out alchohol, Kegels, supplements, etc)

There was a time when I didn't have morning wood. Now I have it again and it's consistent with my performance and erection levels.

 

[BeExcellent]

I'm one that went through a good solid few months of ED. I'm almost back to normal now but still not the same as I was before. Before I could get erect with anyone but now only certain gals can keep me consistently erect.

Here's a good way to tell if it's biological or psychological for guys.
Biological ED = No more waking up with morning wood - This is a key indicator
If you find yourself in this situation, you need to do whatever you can to up your testosterone(workout, eat healthy, cut out alchohol, Kegels, supplements, etc)

There was a time when I didn't have morning wood. Now I have it again and it's consistent with my performance and erection levels.

Agreed. My recent ex had prescription testosterone supplementation. In fact we kept vascillating between the shots and the gel as far as which was better consistently over time. His levels would fall way off (below 250) without the medication to bolster his T levels...

Guys have to pay attention to it for sure.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Bear in mind guys that I see men who are north of 48 years of age. Men in this age group have prostate things going on and often some degree of ED things going on.

If my recent LTR was sober he could go 5 to 7 times in a single overnight (and would go on the next day about how his anatomy was sore in a good way), but if he drank heavily he would have issues.

He was like this for the duration of the relationship and at times he would interrupt me midday for sex too, but if he drank too much or partied he’d have trouble. Once the alcohol wore off he was fine again.

The age related issues seem to crop up after age 45 in men. The ED pills help (according to my ex and other men I have heard discuss it), but lifting & keeping in shape helps tremendously too.

It’s along the lines of keeping muscle tone and avoiding injury...you can do it...it just requires more awareness of your health and your body and more commitment to keeping things working well.

Guys younger than 40 truly should not be having this issue...men in the age group I date are older and deal with this to some degree or other...whether with me or with a much younger gal. It’s not an attraction issue...it is a physiology issue...

I feel weird for asking but what does a 'prostate issue' refer to?
Not ed because you mention that later in your post.....do they have pain or bladder issues because of 'prostate issues'?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm one that went through a good solid few months of ED. I'm almost back to normal now but still not the same as I was before. Before I could get erect with anyone but now only certain gals can keep me consistently erect.

Here's a good way to tell if it's biological or psychological for guys.
Biological ED = No more waking up with morning wood - This is a key indicator
If you find yourself in this situation, you need to do whatever you can to up your testosterone(workout, eat healthy, cut out alchohol, Kegels, supplements, etc)

There was a time when I didn't have morning wood. Now I have it again and it's consistent with my performance and erection levels.

Sometimes we get "spoiled" with a certain "hotness" level on the female, and that's what the problem is. It has to be at least that "hot" and liking us.

 

[metalwater]

It’s not an attraction issue...it is a physiology issue...

you are telling like it is. this is not a frame issue at all, it is biology in many cases. I believe that men that are not in an exclusive LTR pay better attention to this and take care of themself. If in an LTR it is easy to let the fear of shame keep us from fixing or solving this. just one more reason for a woman to lose attraction.

If your guys are taking the blue pill(Viagra), it is almost a sure thing that shockwave would help them, probably a lot.