Do you think it's right to tell a girl you have a crush on her?

[nismo-4]

I'd pull this with an older woman, and I know you don't have someone else tell the girl for you (shows you got no balls!)

Is it cool to tell a girl you got a crush on her? Is it not cool? Why?

 

[Mavrick]

Never ever be the first to tell a woman you like her, love her, or crush on her. Always let the woman ask where the relationship is going. If you do it, you will only portray yourself as needy. If anyone is going to become the needy one, it can't be you.

Make sure you are thinking with your mind and not your emotions because those emotions will ignore red flags and forget everything that is logical.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Oh my god!!! This is sooooooooooooooo high school. Seriously!!!!!

 

[sinful]

You don't have to 'say' anything, girls can read your interest a mile away. If you want to communicate your attraction, do it by your actions/vibe...but don't be a wimp about it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Vocalizing your feelings for her is always a bad idea. It makes you boring, predictable, and AFC.

 

[DonGorgon]

Only if you are 10 years old.

 

[BeyondCharm]

Vocalizing your feelings for her is always a bad idea. It makes you boring, predictable, and AFC.

Have you ever said somethin like "I'm diggin you girl" or "I feel a connection between us"

 

[Enryu]

heh dont do it.
An acquaintance once told me about the shortest RL she had with a friend of mine. They got together somehow and she was feeling weird, that after the first day of RL he said to her: I Love you.

Well we were all about 16 but that impression of her, dumping my friend just because he told her I Love You stuck with me.

 

[Berlex]

Tell her you HAD a crush on her.

 

[nismo-4]

Have you ever said somethin like "I'm diggin you girl" or "I feel a connection between us"

That's sh*t I wouldn't touch with a 93 foot pole. If you use these lines, you should be smacked with a 93 foot pole.

Nowadays, I just go with the flow and look for subtle hints.

 

[nismo-4]

Oh my god!!! This is sooooooooooooooo high school. Seriously!!!!!

There's people that are in their 30s saying this kind of crap. It don't always work.

 

[Warrior74]

crushes are for children. seriously. remove that word (and that mindset) from your vocab.

 

[Maxtro]

Telling a girl that you have a crush on her is only a good idea if you absolutely know that the girl likes you. In all other cases do not do it.

As for crushes themselves, they are called oneitis here. Only guys who have a lack of options get crushes on girls.

 

[nismo-4]

Telling a girl that you have a crush on her is only a good idea if you absolutely know that the girl likes you. In all other cases do not do it.

As for crushes themselves, they are called oneitis here. Only guys who have a lack of options get crushes on girls.

Best answer I've found. I'll always keep this in mind Maxtro!

 

[Mavrick]

You don't need any more advice. I've told you all you need to know.

 

[nismo-4]

You don't need any more advice. I've told you all you need to know.

And I'll keep your answer in mind in case I ever think of pulling that sh*t with a chick! I appreciate ya'll who helped me out! And the Maverics beat the Hornets by 10 last night!

 

[NSUballer]

I do not have a lack of options, but there is this ONE girl who I think is absolutely amazing. Shes smart, gorgeous, is NOT a skank. I think she likes me but I dont really know. I dont have oneitis, but would love to get her alone one-on-one.

Honestly if I really wanted to, I could go out every week and bring a different girl home, but that is not a challenge. I want a challenge, someone who will actually make me work for their attention.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

As for crushes themselves, they are called oneitis here. Only guys who have a lack of options get crushes on girls.

I don't think so. For me this is an anomalous occurance that happens once in a couple to three years, but I normally don't feel crushes with most girls I cross paths with, and yet I'd consider myself to have a lack of options.

 

[potato]

You don't need any more advice. I've told you all you need to know.

Actually, I think that Maxtro’s advice was better.

Telling a girl that you have a crush on her is only a good idea if you absolutely know that the girl likes you. In all other cases do not do it.