Do you think it's a good idea for a sexually frustrated virgin to "party hard"?

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I was reading that Kavanaugh has come out that he was a virgin in high school, and as well a heavy drinker:

https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2018/sep/24/brett-kavanaugh-says-he-was-virgin-high-school-col/
Brett Kavanaugh said Monday he was a virgin in high school and college, as he tries to fight back against allegations of sexual misconduct.

Judge Kavanaugh, in an interview with Fox News, admits to drinking too much.
my opinion: From my experience, I can say that having been a horny, young virgin, also attending an all-boys Catholic school, I would drink a bit to build "liquid confidence". It can be a dangerous combination. Methinks the allegations against him are true.
 

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When a male is a virgin and is horny, there is a good chance that he'll get involved in nightlife-style game (if under 21) or nightlife game (if 21+) in order to get laid. It is also worth pointing out that non-virgin men in their teens and 21+ are also often into nightlife-style game or nightlife in order to get laid.

I don't think random parties are the easiest way to get laid prior to turning 21 and being able to do nightlife. Daygame and social circle are likely better choices.

Methinks the allegations against him are true.
That was not the sense that I had at that time.

I was reading that Kavanaugh has come out that he was a virgin in high school, and as well a heavy drinker:
If Kavanaugh was a heavy drinker in high school, it might have been a coping mechanism due to sexual frustration.
 

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If Kavanaugh was a heavy drinker in high school, it might have been a coping mechanism due to sexual frustration.
Booze is the oldest cope there is - and it has the side-effect of giving the frustrated chump beer-goggles. :rolleyes:
 

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I was reading that Kavanaugh has come out that he was a virgin in high school, and as well a heavy drinker:

https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2018/sep/24/brett-kavanaugh-says-he-was-virgin-high-school-col/


my opinion: From my experience, I can say that having been a horny, young virgin, also attending an all-boys Catholic school, I would drink a bit to build "liquid confidence". It can be a dangerous combination. Methinks the allegations against him are true.

His heavy drinking was probably highschool and post secondary idiocy where he was trying to be cooler than he actually was. That describes 98% of all highschool and post secondary partiers. They want to be cool. They aren't.

As for the alligations against him Both his accusers have already admitted they lied. One even admitted to never even meeting him at all.
 

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His heavy drinking was probably highschool and post secondary idiocy where he was trying to be cooler than he actually was. That describes 98% of all highschool and post secondary partiers. They want to be cool. They aren't.
Trying to be cooler than you actually are is a sign of insecurity, which is a sign of a frame problem.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #1

Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
 

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Trying to be cooler than you actually are is a sign of insecurity, which is a sign of a frame problem.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #1

Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
I know. I am pretty sure he didn't read tomassi in his teens and early 20s.
 

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I know. I am pretty sure he didn't read tomassi in his teens and early 20s.
The Iron Rules of Tomassi did not exist until the publication of 2013's "The Rational Male". By 2013, Kavanaugh was a married guy in his late 40s. Kavanaugh's wife was a result of a DC social circle introduction.
 

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The Iron Rules of Tomassi did not exist until the publication of 2013's "The Rational Male". By 2013, Kavanaugh was a married guy in his late 40s. Kavanaugh's wife was a result of a DC social circle introduction.
I know. My answer was meant tongue and cheek.
 

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A lot about Brett Kavanaugh's personal life screams "beta male".

He did defend himself well against false accusations in his Supreme Court hearing, which is neither alpha nor beta. There's an argument to be made that it was "beta" too, since all Kavanaugh did in 2018 was follow the model set by Clarence Thomas in 1991, when Thomas was hit with false allegations of sexual harassment too. Many men have been hit with false harassment and rape allegations. False harassment and rape allegations are a matter that men must take seriously.
 
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The Iron Rules of Tomassi did not exist until the publication of 2013's "The Rational Male". By 2013, Kavanaugh was a married guy in his late 40s. Kavanaugh's wife was a result of a DC social circle introduction.
He JudgeMaxxed.
 
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