Do you think i screwed this up??? (seriously)

Badmannaz

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WELCOME BACK!!! Missed this place....i must admit that the absence of sosauve really encouraged me to venture into the world of women!! well a/w


Me n my buddy of mine decided to go visit my close cousin at college for 3 days...well my cousin was extremely busy but had sometime to hang w/ us but we kicked it with his girlfriend and her friends for the last couple days...well his girlfriend's friend was pretty hot...about a 8 and she had an ass that would make any man beg for mercy...she'd been single for like 3 months...but i was putting on some moves...i got her to admit that i was cute so that left me w/ a definate attraction...we all decided to go to a club the last night i was there and me n her were GRINDING so Hard together that another girl approached her and asked if she could switch places with her!! lolz btw there were like 5 girls starring me down the whole time....well at the end his happend

cuz:man i gotta wake up at 7 to go to class tommorrow
cuzgF:me too gotta wake up at 8 damn o well!!
Hb8:well BM you can stay at my place i don't have to wake up till 12...

so we go over her place...at this time i'm thinking it's going down....so I decide to enter her room n all and she wasn't even asleep...i started talking to her and i find out she doesn't want to date anyguys under her age anymore..blah blah blah...but at the same time she sitting here in her panties and a tanktop talking to me...i left w/o making any moves cuz i'm thinking she's not that kinda girl....so what do you think?? did i mess up or what??
 

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missing the obvious...

1. Girl calls you cute.
2. Girl grinds on you all night while you demonstrate social value to other girls.
3. Girl invites you to spend the night at her house.
4. Girl allows you inside her bedroom.
5. Girl talks to you practically naked.

Result: You go home because you think "she's not that kind of girl."

No buddy, you didn't mess up. I like guys like you. You make my life eaiser. Less competition is always a good thing.
WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?! This young lady couldn't have said F*CK ME any louder if she wrote it on her forehead. I'm of course assuming that's what you want, right? I mean, that is why you went to her house, right? If not, you're in the wrong place.
You could have done anything except leave to accomplish what you wanted. She was into you. She wanted it. And you couldn't deliver. In case you didn't know, not every girl is going to say, "Ok, we've been talking long enough. Let's have sex now." It's up to YOU to take it to the next level. It's up to YOU to lead HER where ever you ant to take her. And she knows it. On some level all women know it. To do otherwise (like you did) is wussy behavior.
So yes, you messed up. Maybe you'll end up in the friend zone. Or maybe her intrest in you is so high it won't matter.
If it was me, that's the assumption I would make. This girl is so into me, it doesn't matter I did in the past. She wants it, and I'm going to give it to her. Take that frame and run with it. You did at least get the number, right?
If not, slap yourself and NEVER< EVER do that again. Learn from your fear. Don't let it control you.
 

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Oh, that was a great laugh.
No buddy, you didn't mess up. I like guys like you. You make my life eaiser. Less competition is always a good thing.
That will definitely be remembered! ^^,
 
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Badmannaz said:
..but at the same time she sitting here in her panties and a tanktop talking to me...i left w/o making any moves cuz i'm thinking she's not that kinda girl....so what do you think?? did i mess up or what??
Hahaha, are you serious? Panty girl was waiting for you to come in her room - that is why she had her panties on...and that is why she invited you to stay at her place!

You didn't go to her room to ask her for a "date"!

You dropped the ball or should I say "your balls"!:D
 

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well the game isn't over...she's actually coming in town to see a concert with me and my cousin and her 2 friends are coming too she's staying at my house...soooooo....idk gimme a break it's pretty easy to SAY what you would do but i guess this time i say Fvck it...she's one of those girls who get's hit on all of the time so..idk i guess this time i can't screw up
 

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<=== even I would have had the balls to take action
 
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