Do you think chicks are pushing "sleep divorces" because they don't want to put out?

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Funny this topic has come up because I was only thinking about it yesterday - and frankly I've never enjoyed sleeping with women. Sex, yes, of course, but I've always preferred to sleep alone. Why? A bit of separation is a good thing and I get a better sleep on my own.
 

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It's complicated. There are usually multiple incompatibilities at the same time.

This issue will also even arise prior to a marriage as well.
 

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People are sleeping worse these days, let them get their rest.
 

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Funny this topic has come up because I was only thinking about it yesterday - and frankly I've never enjoyed sleeping with women. Sex, yes, of course, but I've always preferred to sleep alone. Why? A bit of separation is a good thing and I get a better sleep on my own.
Not me. I normally wake up with a stiffy so if I have my girl there I can just go to town
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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I think it could become the norm to sleep in different rooms. Actually I find it weird that in the past couples always slept in the same bad. Seems kinda depressing not having your sleeping space. Also, I been used to it for 40 years it would be weird to be sleeping on the same bed as a woman everyday.
 

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This is not going to be much of an issue for non-marital couples who live apart.
 

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My grandparents started sleeping in separate rooms in their 60's. It didn't help their relationship at all.

Its definitely not for me either. It helps me feel relaxed & connected to my girl. I love feeling a sexy naked woman's body next to me until I fall asleep.
 

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I don't think this has anything to do with sex.

I also hate sharing a bed, I get horrible, horrible sleep, and I think more people are realizing this. I would love to find a girl who would want this, in my experience when I tell most women I don't want to sleepover, or make them sleep on the couch, they get butthurt.
 

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Depends on the girl actually.

Some just keep contact while leaving your space but others hunt you down till you're in the edge of the bed.
Also the morning after drama when they complain that you "turned your back toward them".

There is also the tempetature problem where many women are cold and dont want you to turn the AC on even in summer.
 

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I don't think this has anything to do with sex.

I also hate sharing a bed, I get horrible, horrible sleep, and I think more people are realizing this. I would love to find a girl who would want this, in my experience when I tell most women I don't want to sleepover, or make them sleep on the couch, they get butthurt.
I don’t sleep well at all with a chick. I’m worried about waking her if I toss and turn too much to get more comfortable. So I stay still in an uncomfortable position and never actually fall asleep.

And the AC thing too. I like it freezing cold.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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I agree man that's the best, but how do you deal when your who arm lose the circulation and falls asleep :rofl:
The trick is to have her head on you pecs, your armpit above her head. You’ll learn how as you experiment with what works with different size girls.

I cuddle the ones I want to keep around, and 90% of them always remark how much they love the intimacy and how they’ve not had they before…
 
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