You dont need to be married to someone to have a relationship with them. This is not the 1950's. The best life is to have a girlfriend that you dont live with & you see eachother a few times a week. That is the best. 50% of all marriages end in divorce & that doesnt mean the other 50% are happy. It means they CANT get divorced. A guy that makes alot of $$$, cant really afford to divorce because of high alimony & child support payments. Many people are simply STUCK in a miserable marriage & cant get out. If you get married to some chick, she will just drain you of your $$$. Women are lazy & they wont want to work after there married to you. Then, they get fat. Dont get married & dont have kids. Keep your life simple. Think of all the places you can go if you are not married: Europe, So America, Asia. Think of all the fun times you can have w/ your friends. Think of the cool hobbies you can do. Maybe you want to start a small business one day?..........all of these things are difficult to do, not impossible, but DIFFICULT to do, if you are married. Im am 41 & have some divorced friends & they are literally going broke supporting ex-wives & kids. Its so stupid. Marriage one day wont even exist. There was a recent study that fewer & fewer people are wanting to get married & dont want to get married? What FOR? A man doesnt benefit from marriage. A woman does.