Do you pass when it's "too easy?"

[Warrior74]

There are only three possibilities here:

1) She was ugly.
2) You are gay.
3) You are full of sh*t.

Passing up sex with a good looking girl because "it's too easy" is akin finding an unattended suitcase filled with cash and leaving it where it was because you didn't have to work for that money.

LOL. The folly of youth. Sometimes, when it's too easy it raises flags. I'm not the best looking guy on earth. If it's too easy for me, how many others has it been too easy for? Condoms don't save you from every thing and I've known some rank hors who have some nasty **** and look fvcking great. No, a wise man thinks a bit before smashing everything that is offered.

I turned down this sexy ass 8 a while back. Met her on a happy hour with friends. Something about her seemed "off" but she was digging me hard. Come to find out she dates mostly convicts, guys fresh out of prison and doesn't really care for condoms much. Yah..that's a nice way to end up with some AIDS. **** that. Trust your gut when it comes to these bytches. If your gut says no, make it so. If your gut says yes, do your best.

 

[kingsam]

I'm guessing that you were rooting for Cleveland and the depression of thinking that LeBron James will most likely end up in Chicago got you down for the rest of the night.

Had you been a Celtics fan, you would have been so ecstatic about the game, you would have gotten down with ANYTHING because you were so happy.

But that's okay... maybe LeBron will stay and your head will get back into it.



Now all kidding aside, it HAS happened to me as well. Some times you just aren't feeling it. It happens. Some men LOVE the chase.
Ever noticed that sometimes we'll go after a woman with reckless abandon and then after they get some... they could care less?

In this case, there was no chase, there was no excitement to feed off of. It was just... THERE. So you passed. I'm betting 90% of the people who will reply in this thread will be like: OH COME ON, I"D NEVER PASS ON THAT.

But in all honesty, it has happened at some point or another with men who do get laid enough. It's the fact that you might have options that makes you less picky in the first place. You're not so desperate anymore and you won't jump at the first thing that throws itself at you.

K it looks you were correct with the rest of the messages!

if you have to work a little for something you perceive it to have more "value" than if something is layed on a plate for you - like this chick in the OP,

i wonder how often this chick gets wiht random men she just met.

 

[Kailex]

I'm really disappointed at the amount of people whose response was: You're gay.

I mean, REALLY?

Are we so blinded by the pvssy that we seriously think we need to bang one every single time, even if it's seemingly handed to us on a silver platter? If we turn it down, we're immediately branded homosexuals?

Well then, sign me up for the gay parade, because just as PR Moon has done, I've done as well. Maybe not the same situation, but I've had several chances that I just didn't take up on because of the "ease" of the situation. It always seems to bring up a red flag when a girl that you've put absolutely NO work into trying to lay, wants to just all out have a fvckfest with you. It happens sometimes and it's quite the turn-off.

It's exactly as Warrior stated, sometimes you just "feel" it. If something about her just doesn't... "seem right", then there's some underlying issue going on that you just aren't feeling. This doesn't make you a homosexual... if anything, I'd say it'd make you a good judge of "character".

I'd be in severe disbelief if every guy here that branded PR Moon as a homosexual, would actually tap every single HB8 that just walked up to them and said "Fvck me"...

But in a way, I could see this happening... I mean, a lot of men I've met that get turned down by women, immediately justify the rejection with "She must be a lesbian".

 

[PRMoon]

I'm just going to refer to a few responses I feel were relevant. The rest of you are of course entitled to your opinions.

Had you been a Celtics fan, you would have been so ecstatic about the game, you would have gotten down with ANYTHING because you were so happy.

But that's okay... maybe LeBron will stay and your head will get back into it.

Now all kidding aside, it HAS happened to me as well. Some times you just aren't feeling it. It happens. Some men LOVE the chase.

Kailex is awesome. I think this one is the closest to how things went down. I've said it several times in the past, I'm much more about the chase than the kill as it goes. I think having it served up as easy as it was turned me off pretty quickly. It doesn't matter what the girl looked like, I don't take hand outs.

BTW I like the Magic this year. I told my roomie that the Cavs were over rated and weren't gonna make the finals. He kept going on and on about how they were going to win it all. Seeing them go down was hilarious. They might be the worst number one seeded team ever.

If this were the case, I'd have to wonder why a guy like this would even come here.

If you have "options", meaning multiple hot chicks at your disposal, I'd say that speaks for itself. Being picky enough to turn down a genuinely attractive woman could mean a number of things: misapplied game, nervous/intimidated, not attracted enough to make a move, etc.

I'm here to teach as much as I can. Sometimes I do have my own problems though so I post my issues if I can't figure it out on my own. I know having options is a good problem to have but working out problems is the only way to grow. I think I've had my fill of freebies though and I have to earn my paychecks if that makes sense.

Yes, and I almost always kick myself later. Its an ego thing, IMO.

Usually I'd agree. I still remember girls I passed on hooking up with in the past and I feel kinda bad about it. This time though when I replay the situation, no bad feelings come about. I think I'm becoming more of an adult or my player status is changing. One of the two.

 

[HalfAddict]

Dude don't feel bad, you probably avoided some STD'S, and don't sweat what this community has to say about you not ****ing some dirty hor.

If you weren't feeling it, you weren't feeling it...

Fact of the matter is 99% of the negative posts are just AFC'S who are butthurt that they weren't in your situation.

 

[game.r]

Dude don't feel bad, you probably avoided some STD'S, and don't sweat what this community has to say about you not ****ing some dirty hor.

If you weren't feeling it, you weren't feeling it...

Fact of the matter is 99% of the negative posts are just AFC'S who are butthurt that they weren't in your situation.

 

[Uberguy]

To the OP:

Every guy who accuses you of being gay is clearly speaking out of envy. And envy is the calling card of an AFC.

If you weren't feeling it, you weren't feeling it. And if she was too easy, you might have just spared yourself the trouble of an STD. I don't blame you. I've ignored girls who were physical 8s because they were mentally 2s.

There are, of course, those guys that will throw themselves at any girl for what she looks like, regardless of the situation. Hopefully it's because they're young and don't know any better yet. Have some self-respect guys! If you're attracting quality women because you know you're a catch, you won't need to rely on some *****'s "charity".

 

[Ease]

You're all going to be crying when this guy gives a lay report of ****ing his male roommate.