I was thinking, I'm not an outgoing, loud, party guy. I've been shy all my life, but I'm working on opening up more. Is it possible to be attractive to women without being the life of the party "alpha" all the time? Are there any laid back guys here on the forum who still get chicks? I don't dance, never have, and don't plan on doing it. Is that going to stop me from getting decent chicks?
I mean, I can attract some girls because of my face (that's the only thing that stands out, I'm 5'5/120lbs and skinny as hell) but I'd hate for things to end shortly after they realize I'm not an extroverted type of guy. If I try and act like I'm outgoing it just doesn't work, and it makes me feel like an idiot to force it because it's not my personality. Any in a similar situation?
I mean, I can attract some girls because of my face (that's the only thing that stands out, I'm 5'5/120lbs and skinny as hell) but I'd hate for things to end shortly after they realize I'm not an extroverted type of guy. If I try and act like I'm outgoing it just doesn't work, and it makes me feel like an idiot to force it because it's not my personality. Any in a similar situation?