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Im not disagreeing with your assertion that everyone pays in one way or another, just made a side observation

I can just picture you paying the escort like "there's another notch on the ol axe handle"
That was NOT my assertion. I never made such an assertion but that is @SW15 assertion on another thread. I just think if someone is making such a strong statement then you want to question the veracity of them.
 

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Getting laid should not be your purpose. Your purpose should be to find friends that compliment your life, and be the best version of yourself possible. Then try to date women and sex is a byproduct of being a great version of yourself.
I agree, but that's not going to work on a frustrated young male in a college environment.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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When I go to the bar, everyone is my friend, that's my secret, I'll introduce myself to literally everyone, don't try to steal no chick or talk no shiz, just having fun, I used to do this a lot when I was overweight and it was wildly successful but now that I'm fit again it doesn't work so well, guys overtly try to fight me, being fat does have its advantages
 

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It is not a matter of grief, it's a matter of logic. Why bother wasting your time when you can just buy it? I'm just trying to understand.
Time is money. You can't get the time back that you lose. It shows that you lack business acumen and have to always resort to adolescent means rather than focusing on income and paying your way.

In @SW15 own words, you are either paying for it directly or indirectly and its exactly the same notch count. If that is the statements that he puts in other threads (one of which is not even related to escorts BTW) then it's fair game to bring that up here as well. So, it's not a matter of what he did, but his official statements as an expert of dating.
I’ve never been able to understand this kind of thinking. A woman wanting you inside her because she’s horny for your dvck is in no way comparable to an escort or betabux.
And If one is that horny( As prostituion is illegal in the US) Hoping on Tinder for a ONS seems better, cheaper, easier & safer than figuring out how to get an escort.
 

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I’ve never been able to understand this kind of thinking. A woman wanting you inside her because she’s horny for your dvck is in no way comparable to an escort or betabux.
She's not horny for YOUR dyck, she's horny for A dyck. That's simple logic in ONS and 1-3 dates, sex as she didn't have time to get to know YOU. So assuming there's no real pleasure derived from daygame and endless swiping and messaging on OLD, then one has to look at obtaining (meaningless) sex through a business perspective.
 

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She's not horny for YOUR dyck, she's horny for A dyck. That's simple logic in ONS and 1-3 dates, sex as she didn't have time to get to know YOU. So assuming there's no real pleasure derived from daygame and endless swiping and messaging on OLD, then one has to look at obtaining (meaningless) sex through a business perspective.
I enjoyed Tinder. I don’t really daygame. but nightgame is fun. Sometimes a girl is horny & just wants you as her human dildo. But. If a girl want sex with you. It is likely you physically turn her on. Much different from an escort.
 

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Sometimes a girl is horny & just wants you as her human dildo.
100% this. One of the reasons I don't see it as a success, contrary to most people on this forum, when guys seduce hoes. Just like visiting escorts, there's nothing to brag about, IMO.
But. If a girl want sex with you. It is likely you physically turn her on. Much different from an escort.
Not if your looks are on point. For instance, do you really think this hoe was attracted by Ronaldo, but had he hired an escort (which I believe is legal in Vegas), that escort wouldn't have been physically turned on? It would've been just the same to her if an obese middle aged guy in town for business got her services that night? :rolleyes:
 

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100% this. One of the reasons I don't see it as a success, contrary to most people on this forum, when guys seduce hoes. Just like visiting escorts, there's nothing to brag about, IMO.

Not if your looks are on point. For instance, do you really think this hoe was attracted by Ronaldo, but had he hired an escort (which I believe is legal in Vegas), that escort wouldn't have been physically turned on? It would've been just the same to her if an obese middle aged guy in town for business got her services that night? :rolleyes:
Prostitution is not legal in Clark County.
 

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I enjoyed Tinder. I don’t really daygame. but nightgame is fun. Sometimes a girl is horny & just wants you as her human dildo. But. If a girl want sex with you. It is likely you physically turn her on. Much different from an escort.
But how would you personally know the difference? You have never been with an escort. Given your feedback with women in general, its not a stretch that you would get the benefit of YMMV with an escort without spending that much. An simar guy without the looks advantage may have to get an expensive and well reviewed one or get an attitude and mechanical service.
 

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But how would you personally know the difference? You have never been with an escort. Given your feedback with women in general, its not a stretch that you would get the benefit of YMMV with an escort without spending that much. An simar guy without the looks advantage may have to get an expensive and well reviewed one or get an attitude and mechanical service.
YMMV?
 

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Im in cali rn and all my hs buddies are in new york however even if i was there i would not want to hang out with them as we have completely different values now. I dont know much people here and im 27 do you really need friends to get laid? I had a social circle in college and got some pvssy through connections but most of it was cold approach tbh.
Am i overthinking this? Anyone just travel solo around the world banging hot girls?
It's not a hard requirement but it's more difficult to get girls without friends.

It's like how you don't need money to get girls, but how will you pay for dates if you're totally broke?

If you can't make friends that could suggest your personality is not good, which casts doubt on your game.

There's aspects of dating that are harder solo such as social events (harder to have fun and not spam approach if you're by yourself)
Or reputation in a social circle (no friends = no social proof. But you could turn that around into a positive by making friends as soon as you arrive)

it's harder to approach sets of women solo. You'd need to have balls of steel, but at social events women are usually in pairs or groups.

However It's definitely better to approach solo than to not approach at all, or to have lame loser wingmen, or "friends" that c0ckblock you, etc.
 

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Your Mileage May Very. By the way, this is 100% academical with me as I dont believe in sex outside of marriage. So both free or paid is irrelevant with me in that way.
So you married the demon escort who stole your soul?
 

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Your Mileage May Very. By the way, this is 100% academical with me as I dont believe in sex outside of marriage. So both free or paid is irrelevant with me in that way.
Maybe a I should have taken that stripper up on her offer. Probably would have been interesting.
 
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