do you need friends to get laid

Thebestthereeveris

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Im in cali rn and all my hs buddies are in new york however even if i was there i would not want to hang out with them as we have completely different values now. I dont know much people here and im 27 do you really need friends to get laid? I had a social circle in college and got some pvssy through connections but most of it was cold approach tbh.
Am i overthinking this? Anyone just travel solo around the world banging hot girls?
 

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You need money to use escorts. You need a job to get money.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Don't need them. Non-bar approaching is mostly a solo activity. Swipe apps and Insta DM's are also solo. It's even possible to go to nightlife venues solo and approach, though I don't recommend doing that.

Once you arrange the date, it's all on you to get laid from the date. You could also have same night sex from a nightlife approach. It's very rare to get same day sex with a non-bar approach but it has happened.
 

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Don't need them. Non-bar approaching is mostly a solo activity. Swipe apps and Insta DM's are also solo. It's even possible to go to nightlife venues solo and approach, though I don't recommend doing that.

Once you arrange the date, it's all on you to get laid from the date. You could also have same night sex from a nightlife approach. It's very rare to get same day sex with a non-bar approach but it has happened.
Actually. I like solo bar/clubbing. Though going with friends is fun too.
 
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It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Get a wing dog.
 

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Get a wing dog.
They can help for outdoor approaching, but outdoor approaching is certainly possible without one.

Actually. I like solo bar/clubbing. Though going with friends is fun too.
In nightlife venues, it's better to have someone with you. Every woman is in a group of 2+ in nightlife venues. In certain non-bar venues for approaching, it's normal for the woman to be alone and isolated from her friends, so she doesn't think it is abnormal that you are alone. This is a big reason why non-bar approaching is better for those who prefer to operate as solo pickup artists. In nightlife venues, there's somewhat of an expectation that you're with at least one other person.

With that said, I have visited nightlife venues and done solo approaching. Never once have I been called out for being alone when I've done it.
 

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They can help for outdoor approaching, but outdoor approaching is certainly possible without one.
Of course. You could also use a wing cat. :cool:

A wing dog will do more than just 'help'. Women love guys with dogs, because caring for a dog requires the typical responsibility and capabilities for care that you might give her. Any guy who is good with animals can count on getting female attention.

If you go out without a dog, but you're good with animals, you could also seek out lovely women with dogs and approach the dog, not the woman. She'll wonder why you don't try to hit on her and will likely start qualifying if interested.

With that said, I have visited nightlife venues and done solo approaching. Never once have I been called out for being alone when I've done it.
If you don't act weird, but just go around making smalltalk with women, nobody should take offence to your presence.
 

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But you use escorts. I called you out on this on another thread. If you also use allot of escorts to bump up your notch counts then why do you bother wasting your time going to these venues instead of just hiring some escorts instead?
Why don't you take your grievances to PM, if SW15 did something objectionable? Keep that escort thing in the escort thread.
 

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Why don't you take your grievances to PM, if SW15 did something objectionable? Keep that escort thing in the escort thread.
It is not a matter of grief, it's a matter of logic. Why bother wasting your time when you can just buy it? I'm just trying to understand.
Time is money. You can't get the time back that you lose. It shows that you lack business acumen and have to always resort to adolescent means rather than focusing on income and paying your way.

In @SW15 own words, you are either paying for it directly or indirectly and its exactly the same notch count. If that is the statements that he puts in other threads (one of which is not even related to escorts BTW) then it's fair game to bring that up here as well. So, it's not a matter of what he did, but his official statements as an expert of dating.
 
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It is not a matter of grief, it's a matter of logic. Why bother wasting your time when you can just buy it? I'm just trying to understand.
Time is money. You can't get the time back that you lose. It shows that you lack business acumen and have to always resort to adolescent means rather than focusing on income and paying your way.
Grievances, not grief. Just keep it to the 'paying for escort' thread or PM.
 

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OK, you're back on my ignore list.
 

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It is not a matter of grief, it's a matter of logic. Why bother wasting your time when you can just buy it? I'm just trying to understand.
Time is money. You can't get the time back that you lose. It shows that you lack business acumen and have to always resort to adolescent means rather than focusing on income and paying your way.

In @SW15 own words, you are either paying for it directly or indirectly and its exactly the same notch count. If that is the statements that he puts in other threads (one of which is not even related to escorts BTW) then it's fair game to bring that up here as well. So, it's not a matter of what he did, but his official statements as an expert of dating.
Im not hating on you, but I remember when you originally joined the forum, watching your descent into bitter hopelessness has been slightly comical. Again, not hating, just saying.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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