I know what you're talking about since I wasn't part of the greek life and def witnessed how incredibly drawn girls were to them. But you were also probably aiming too high. Sometimes settling for a 6 was all I needed and they were in abundance.Disagree, I found college to be the toughest because what frat you were in and what crews you ran with meant everything. Most of the times I found that the girls that looked above average went for athletes and frat bros. College is the toughest time for most guys because social status matters more than it ever will at any point in your life. Not sure where you went to college but it is not the case at most major party schools in the US.