BobFuest said:
My friend asked me this question and it was something i wasnt sure about.
His girl is a great girl and really seems to be in love with him. Her interest level is about 70-80% at least. The question is; do you let her hangout with whoever she wants? She is friends with a guy she dated for only a few weeks or so before this guy and he trusts her but wonders why would she even want to be friends with the guy? True this guy took the prize home but this is someone she had sex with and it sounds like that when she started seeing my friend this guy took that as his cue to drop her a$$.
what do you think? I told him to not be insecure about it but I also wonder, is it really neccessary for her to even try and be friendly with him(the guy)?
To me I would not tolerate it tbh.
Not a nice comfort zone if you ask me, the fact your having to bring it up is an issue.
In an ideal world we could all get along, but lets face it here!
She has had sex with the guy, why does she still want him around and why does the other guy want her to be around?
What is going on here, good friend’s almost emotional relationship stuff.
Think your mate should tell them two to stop acting like kids and get it back on there is obviously something still going on there.
How would she like it if he was still seeing and going out with a girl he has fu**ed, bet she would not be too impressed at all.
I don’t know man not something I would be comfortable in, but then again I don’t worry about women so to me any cr** is a perfect excuse to move on, some guys cant let go of the puzzy addiction to live comfortable.#
Let her enjoy her ex-BF or FB what ever he was, actually a FB is even worse, I don’t trust any women and I have many reasons for that.
Keeping a guy on the scene who has history with her is very bizarre, but in a female mentality frame it is cool hey she is getting what she wants. Make an issue out of it and your mate is just a controlling idiot, so to me the best advice is to dump the women in all honesty.
Tell him to answer these questions truthfully:
Can he trust her with this guy alone?
Can he trust her with this guy alone on a night out and even back at his place?
Can he see himself watching his girl spend time with another guy, possibly even sacrifice time with him in favour of the other guy?
Can he say 100% that he trusts her and he trusts this guy to not try it on.
He may know his GF but I don’t believe men and women can be mates, women can have guy mates but guys cant have female mates unless they are butt ugly. There is something going on here under the surface but some one is not being completely and genuinely honest.
Also one more thing telling your mate how to live his life may come back to haunt you, you should not really give advice since any regret will be poured your way. You could potentially loose a mate here, if he is so stupid and blind to see the problem, don’t be the fool to point it out, you can offer advice if he ask’s but make sure you tell him you don’t want to offer advice since he may take it the wrong way.
Next the biatch, I guarantee she is not being 100% honest here.
As for the guy taking the prize home stop this cr** right now no puzzy is ever the prize! period.
