You know what I really want to do? (My path to success)
My emotions are up and down, but I'm looking deep inside myself to face my failures and to correct them. My main problem with women is myself. The way I think and feel about myself DOES affect my attractiveness. Transforming the way I think will not be an overnight process but instead a journey.
The thread's title is "Do you know what I really want to do?". I want to start speaking my mind. Currently, I only speak my mind in business situations and at work. But away from that, I hesitate too much and most often, not speak my mind at all.
I made a thread a couple weeks ago venting my frustration. But I can see a change in my love life and social life depends upon my willingness to change. And I am willing to change. Now that I told myself that I'm willing, what do I need to change.
I need to understand that telling a girl she's hot isn't against the law. I need to understand that not all women will dig me, I will receive lots of rejections but brush all that off and just be me. My beliefs are sometimes men need to think with their **** and not their minds. When I see an attractive girl, my **** says he wants IN. Of course, that girl may not be the woman for me but if I listen to my brain (a brain that's been brainwashed by society to be nice and polite) before even making an approach, I will psyche myself out. My **** knows best in the phase before an approach. If she's sexually desirable to me, I will go over and make conversation. After the conversation has started, my brain can kick in and let me know whether I should pursue this chick or not. I need to de-program myself and be a man. I'm a man, she's a woman, and it's natural for me to want her. It all boils down to that. Forget social status, income, possessions... all that will psyche you out and cause failure.
You're always told to think before you speak, but sometimes that just not good advice. My own brother is good at making conversation with anyone, not just women. He makes a funny comment or starts talking about something he and the person can both relate to. I don't see him thinking before approaching a girl nor do I see players thinking either. They just act!
Starting tomorrow, I will speak my mind. I will listen to my ****. I will be a man. Real danger is in Iraq, not in a shopping mall talking to a hot chick.
And I also know that I've been a loner to long. I rejected parties and social outings because I prefer to be myself. This has got to change. It doesn't mean I will start doing things that I don't want to do, but I will start saying yes more than no. I need to start networking, not just to make friends but professional development too. I never know who I will meet that could help me in some way, shape, or form.
Does anyone have any remarks to make on my new way of thinking? Am I on the right track to becoming a man?
My goal is to meet and seduce a chick within the next thirty days and get laid. **** having a girlfriend. A relationship will come on its own. I will update this thread with a good story hopefully in the next month or so.
My emotions are up and down, but I'm looking deep inside myself to face my failures and to correct them. My main problem with women is myself. The way I think and feel about myself DOES affect my attractiveness. Transforming the way I think will not be an overnight process but instead a journey.
The thread's title is "Do you know what I really want to do?". I want to start speaking my mind. Currently, I only speak my mind in business situations and at work. But away from that, I hesitate too much and most often, not speak my mind at all.
I made a thread a couple weeks ago venting my frustration. But I can see a change in my love life and social life depends upon my willingness to change. And I am willing to change. Now that I told myself that I'm willing, what do I need to change.
I need to understand that telling a girl she's hot isn't against the law. I need to understand that not all women will dig me, I will receive lots of rejections but brush all that off and just be me. My beliefs are sometimes men need to think with their **** and not their minds. When I see an attractive girl, my **** says he wants IN. Of course, that girl may not be the woman for me but if I listen to my brain (a brain that's been brainwashed by society to be nice and polite) before even making an approach, I will psyche myself out. My **** knows best in the phase before an approach. If she's sexually desirable to me, I will go over and make conversation. After the conversation has started, my brain can kick in and let me know whether I should pursue this chick or not. I need to de-program myself and be a man. I'm a man, she's a woman, and it's natural for me to want her. It all boils down to that. Forget social status, income, possessions... all that will psyche you out and cause failure.
You're always told to think before you speak, but sometimes that just not good advice. My own brother is good at making conversation with anyone, not just women. He makes a funny comment or starts talking about something he and the person can both relate to. I don't see him thinking before approaching a girl nor do I see players thinking either. They just act!
Starting tomorrow, I will speak my mind. I will listen to my ****. I will be a man. Real danger is in Iraq, not in a shopping mall talking to a hot chick.
And I also know that I've been a loner to long. I rejected parties and social outings because I prefer to be myself. This has got to change. It doesn't mean I will start doing things that I don't want to do, but I will start saying yes more than no. I need to start networking, not just to make friends but professional development too. I never know who I will meet that could help me in some way, shape, or form.
Does anyone have any remarks to make on my new way of thinking? Am I on the right track to becoming a man?
My goal is to meet and seduce a chick within the next thirty days and get laid. **** having a girlfriend. A relationship will come on its own. I will update this thread with a good story hopefully in the next month or so.
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