"do you have a Facebook?"

[mark420]

hey guys,

I'm about to get back into the game and have some Facebook questions. i just recently got a FB page cuz i wanted to reconnect with old friends and family. i have never used it to pick up chicks and probably never will but had a question. how do you deal with chicks who ask you if you have a FB page and you don't want to give it to them? i was going out with a girl i was trying to bang recently and she asked me a few weeks ago if I had a FB and i said no and she gave me this puzzled look and then just shrugged it off. i have search disabled for my name and email so you can't find me there but apparently she found one of my friends page and from there she was mine(although it was private, she knew one existed at this point). so next day i talk to her and she gets pissed that i was 'lying' to her and what not and that she doesn't trust me anymore cuz she's tired of guys that try to 'hide' girls they're going out with etc...and hangs up. i never talked to her again after that. i really don't give a **** about it but I'm trying to prevent this from happening with the next one. deleting my page really isn't an option as most of my communication with family is done with it.



unless i get serious with them, i really don't want them knowing anything about my FB page otherwise they will post comments, force me to post pics of me and her, etc...then get mad when i won't, etc....just drama bs. if i really get into someone(relationship) i don't mind it but not with chicks that I'm dating.

thanks

 

[ArcBound]

Well for next time "Yeah but I don't really use it" you don't end up lying and she can't get mad about you not adding her ever.

 

[mark420]

but then she'll just ask 'log in and add me'.


actually now that FB has these 'groups' i was actually thinking of creating a group like "girls i wanna ****" and only putting up family related stuff and blocking everything else.

 

[runner83]

If you aren't on facebook how can you do sick sh!t like this?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=188675

Don't let decisions in your life be ruled by whether it helps you pick up chicks or not.

I only started on facebook in march of this year, and it is such an amazing tool, I find it hard to remember what it was like before I was on there.

Use it to your advantage in women, some of the following are what I do:

* Never have chat active - do you want a girl to know you are sitting at home on the computer?

* Only post status updates from your phone, similar to the above point for why.

* NEVER NEVER NEVER post boring status updates - always make them exciting and with a bit of mystery - this will get girls (if she checking out your status) wondering about you.

If you really don't want a girl seeing your facebook, then don't let her see it, but then she will wonder what you're up to.

I personally don't have an issue about adding girls on it, but you need to make sure your profile or status updates have nothing lame on it.

Also, a good thing to do is add random hot chicks on it, to add to your social proof (have to be careful to not overdo it or FB temporarily blocks you, but its amazing how many accept). Sure, you may not have met them, but nobody else knows that.

Get a good collection of honey's in your friend list, so any girl you add will see them and wonder about you.