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And I don't mean head. Every time I tried to shave down there it caused so much itching I went crazy so never made it a habit.
 

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Bro it's not that hard, buy a nice body trimming razer... i even used a cheap $10 electric face razor with an adjustable clip guard down there and never had problems, even as someone with sensitive skin. Just take your time and start small. There's no point shaving it that just looks weird anyway just trim it down a bit.
 

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I just started wet shaving few months ago using a safety razor and I recently started doing the armpits and down there with it too. If the area ain't used to razor shaving it has to get used to it first, sometimes even if your technique is mild or use whatever pre/aftershave product on the skin. Frequent shaving on a new area for around a month and a half is what it takes for my skin to adapt to smooth ATG shaving and a completely spotless result.
 

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Yeah I used a trimmer but it still itched like a motherf
Maybe try some aloe or Gold Bond powder, or maybe even some cortisone cream?
 

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I found these younger women tend to favour me being oldskool.
I actually believe you.

And coming from that perspective, the bush is not only welcomed, but also expected.

But I'm saying from my perspective, as a lean 30 something guy. In my body aesthetic, they favour hairless.
 

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I actually believe you.

And coming from that perspective, the bush is not only welcomed, but also expected.

But I'm saying from my perspective, as a lean 30 something guy. In my body aesthetic, they favour hairless.
I've noticed hairiness is perceived very differently on older men than on young. If you're young, hairy, bearded (especially if you aren't blessed with a close, full beard) you ain't viewed very favorably and seen as unattractive and lazy and not taking good care of yourself, whereas if you're well into your 40s or beyond, being hairy and bearded suddenly becomes "manly" almost as if it's a sign of wisdom or something like that. I personally don't get it, but to each their own.

Being young, lean, and muscular myself with tall features, I favor a hairless look as well and I find my appearance rapidly reduces the more hairy I get, which now is a thing of the past as my facial, armpit, and pubic hair never gets a chance to grow past 1 mm before getting shaved off BBS.

I also favor sex when both have their pubic areas shaved as I get highly turned on by the repeated hairless clapping plus having the D look bigger along with the defined Adonis belt which really stands out once freshly shaved.
 

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I use a 3 mm clipper guard. Shaving bare has never ended well.

I trim maybe every month or so (after a month, it starts to get too long)
 

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Yes I shave. Feels better. I'd do laser removal but it's expensive and doesn't always work.
 

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Gotta shave down there but you don't want to overdue it. Maybe once a month. Use shavjng creme, never dry shave. Preferably under the shower.

Aftercare is also extremely important because the skin there is thin. Get some good natural lotion , something with aleuvera for example.



I just started wet shaving few months ago using a safety razor and I recently started doing the armpits and down there with it too. If the area ain't used to razor shaving it has to get used to it first, sometimes even if your technique is mild or use whatever pre/aftershave product on the skin. Frequent shaving on a new area for around a month and a half is what it takes for my skin to adapt to smooth ATG shaving and a completely spotless result.
Ofcourse it's a personal matter, but if I shave my armpits I tend to get smelly quicker. Aesthetically it isn't necessary so I don't even bother anymore. Mind you: I NEVER had any hair on my chest so I'm not a hairy guy( black Caribbean Latin Indian & Chinese dna)
 

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Ofcourse it's a personal matter, but if I shave my armpits I tend to get smelly quicker. Aesthetically it isn't necessary so I don't even bother anymore. Mind you: I NEVER had any hair on my chest so I'm not a hairy guy( black Caribbean Latin Indian & Chinese dna)
Likewise. I'm also blessed with a pretty much completely hairless torso besides armpits and a couple of nipple hairs. Imagine all the extra work of having hairs all over your upper body, including back, ough.
 

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I get a Brazilian wax every five weeks or so.
 

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