As I find myself getting into more relationships and getting to know different women more and more, I'm finding myself becoming more and more cynical about women. I've been lied to by women I thought would never lie to me, women who I thought were "good girls" have told me their past sex lives and I've been left speechless, beautiful girls who I would have obsessed about in my early years of high school at how perfect and classy they were I've ended up fvcking in a one night stand with hardly any real effort, I've started to realize how women are almost completely at the mercy of men (I say men as in REAL men), I've started to realize how far being an ******* can get me with women, and I've seen how a quality girl (or so I thought) that I've been in a relationship with can give up her most precious gift her body can give to a random guy just weeks prior to me meeting her.
I used to fawn over girls in high school, I used to day dream about them all the time - romantic fantasies where I'd end up saving the day and winning her heart, or I'd defend her against the ******* jock trying to just fvck her. But in reality, she would willingly fvck the ******* and let him use her because she's convinced herself that she can change him. The girl you might spend so many hours fantasizing about when you were young was on her knees getting facefvked by some douchebag while you were stuck envisioning her as this perfect princess.
It is so, so unnerving that you can watch a decent girl fall victim to a complete amateur who has just rehearsed the played out "step-by-step guide on how to get laid" on this forum and let his pathetic **** fvck her (eye-opening experience, really: I know a guy at my school who browses this website, completely unconfident, tries to fit in, has a transparent moral code... he got a few beers in him to give him courage and ran his game on a HB7 or so, a cute girl that I knew... completely worked) Granted, I didn't have any feelings for her, but if something THAT fake got into her pants, then what's the point of pursuing something meaningful? It just made me think - where's the chemistry, where's the romance? If all you need is just a series of notecards to be intimate with this normal girl, then what does it say about most girls?
I don't know, maybe I'm old fashioned, but I cannot seem to take a girl serious who has had multiple one night stands or who gives it away so easily. Sure, I'll be friends with them, sure I'll fvck them, but I can't ever really respect them. Chaulk it up to me being pretentious, me being young and stupid, or whatever, I don't know what it is, but I can't seem to respect someone who gives their body up so easily.
The way I figure it, 90% of today's women will not be able to live up to your expectations and that of the 10% that do, only 10% of those girls actually deserve to be treated with the respect and care that a gentlemen gives them. That said, it's hard to really envision women as equals to men - which is undoing almost all of what I've been taught growing up.
But, I do know that when I do find that rare girl that deserves to be treated how my mother taught me how to treat a girl, it's going to make it all the more special and worthwhile. And you can bet your ass I'm going to hang onto her.
However, I've discovered that almost all of them will inevitably lie to you, try to manipulate you down the road, not tell you everything about their sexual past, or that have put up with the fact that there have been guys who have treated them like dirt that they have come crawling back to. And I've started to become more cynical with women, I've started caring less, I've started giving them more **** - not because its a neg, but because it amuses me, I've started adopting the mindset "I'm happy with you, but I can leave at any time" when getting into relationships unless they can prove to me otherwise.... And you know the weird part? Since I've started doing this... it's actually improved my results. Is this a natural progression of the game once you get more into it, to not see women as the "good girls" anymore?
I wonder, is this what the *******s start to feel like?
I used to fawn over girls in high school, I used to day dream about them all the time - romantic fantasies where I'd end up saving the day and winning her heart, or I'd defend her against the ******* jock trying to just fvck her. But in reality, she would willingly fvck the ******* and let him use her because she's convinced herself that she can change him. The girl you might spend so many hours fantasizing about when you were young was on her knees getting facefvked by some douchebag while you were stuck envisioning her as this perfect princess.
It is so, so unnerving that you can watch a decent girl fall victim to a complete amateur who has just rehearsed the played out "step-by-step guide on how to get laid" on this forum and let his pathetic **** fvck her (eye-opening experience, really: I know a guy at my school who browses this website, completely unconfident, tries to fit in, has a transparent moral code... he got a few beers in him to give him courage and ran his game on a HB7 or so, a cute girl that I knew... completely worked) Granted, I didn't have any feelings for her, but if something THAT fake got into her pants, then what's the point of pursuing something meaningful? It just made me think - where's the chemistry, where's the romance? If all you need is just a series of notecards to be intimate with this normal girl, then what does it say about most girls?
I don't know, maybe I'm old fashioned, but I cannot seem to take a girl serious who has had multiple one night stands or who gives it away so easily. Sure, I'll be friends with them, sure I'll fvck them, but I can't ever really respect them. Chaulk it up to me being pretentious, me being young and stupid, or whatever, I don't know what it is, but I can't seem to respect someone who gives their body up so easily.
The way I figure it, 90% of today's women will not be able to live up to your expectations and that of the 10% that do, only 10% of those girls actually deserve to be treated with the respect and care that a gentlemen gives them. That said, it's hard to really envision women as equals to men - which is undoing almost all of what I've been taught growing up.
But, I do know that when I do find that rare girl that deserves to be treated how my mother taught me how to treat a girl, it's going to make it all the more special and worthwhile. And you can bet your ass I'm going to hang onto her.
However, I've discovered that almost all of them will inevitably lie to you, try to manipulate you down the road, not tell you everything about their sexual past, or that have put up with the fact that there have been guys who have treated them like dirt that they have come crawling back to. And I've started to become more cynical with women, I've started caring less, I've started giving them more **** - not because its a neg, but because it amuses me, I've started adopting the mindset "I'm happy with you, but I can leave at any time" when getting into relationships unless they can prove to me otherwise.... And you know the weird part? Since I've started doing this... it's actually improved my results. Is this a natural progression of the game once you get more into it, to not see women as the "good girls" anymore?
I wonder, is this what the *******s start to feel like?
