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Do you get a better or worse reaction from women who look like you?

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I am trying to see if there is any link here between how women react to men who could pass for their family members versus those that cannot (so interracial in a way). Like say if you are a blond haired Chad, do you get a better reaction from blonde Stacies or find that women who look more exotic react better? Same if you are a Cristiano Ronaldo, are you finding that tanned girls with dark hair receive you better than a Stacy?
I have dark hair, eyes and could pass for Italian, Greek, Portuguese, Spanish, etc or even Lebanese or Syrian.

It seems I get more attention from women with lighter hair and eyes (Northwestern European, Eastern European) than I do from Mediterranean women or Hispanic women.
 
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I have dark hair, eyes and could pass for Italian, Greek, Portuguese, Spanish, etc or even Lebanese or Syrian.

It seems I get more attention from women with lighter hair and eyes (Northwestern European, Eastern European) than I do from Mediterranean women or Hispanic women.
Yeah, I wonder if naturally Mediterranean women are just more stuck-up but my blond friend from Ireland said they were all over him in Spain.
 

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There is one type of girl for me

i see one maybe once or twice a year usually light brunette, freckly , mid tanned with sexy come to bed eyes ...... yea i would say they look a bit like a female me

But when i see one of these girls as soon as we lay eyes on each other i can just feel the physical attraction/chemistry there like bang my body and mind knows immediately we are physically compatible

defenitely don't get this feeling with a lot of girls i usually have to force myself to be attracted to them
 
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Wow, so I guess my theory is somewhat true.
Maybe, I don't really know but it does seem like at times from observation that women from that part of the world do hate their appearance. Ironically the best sex I had was with an Italian woman but she was a natural blonde and looked more Scandinavian than Italian.
 
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There is one type of girl for me

i see one maybe once or twice a year usually light brunette, freckly , mid tanned with sexy come to bed eyes ...... yea i would say they look a bit like a female me

But when i see one of these girls as soon as we lay eyes on each other i can just feel the physical attraction/chemistry there like bang my body and mind knows immediately we are physically compatible

defenitely don't get this feeling with a lot of girls i usually have to force myself to be attracted to them
Funny thing is I attract these women like flies. There is a fine line in the brunette world where the pasty pale ones with blue eyes love me but the tanned ones with brown eyes seem hostile.
 

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I'm Italian/Greek so I do best with these kind of women
 
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I'm Italian/Greek so I do best with these kind of women
Really? Do you notice any differences in their look versus yours? Like as a dark haired guy who tans easy, I seem to draw in Northern Italian women and Italian women that look white. My sweet spot are the pale brunettes from that background with lighter eyes. Meanwhile, I struggle like crazy against the ones who look ethnic like an Olivia Culpo lookalike.
 

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Really? Do you notice any differences in their look versus yours? Like as a dark haired guy who tans easy, I seem to draw in Northern Italian women and Italian women that look white. My sweet spot are the pale brunettes from that background with lighter eyes. Meanwhile, I struggle like crazy against the ones who look ethnic like an Olivia Culpo lookalike.
Not really man. Most of the women that like me - white, brunette etc. I've had blonde haired, lighter eye colored women like me also, but usually it's women with dark features. This is also what I prefer so I think it's a subconscious thing/what I attract.
 
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Not really man. Most of the women that like me - white, brunette etc. I've had blonde haired, lighter eye colored women like me also, but usually it's women with dark features. This is also what I prefer so I think it's a subconscious thing/what I attract.
Well are you a dark haired guy with darker features as well then?

I prefer the type too but notice it is a hit and miss for me, I tend to attract a ton of blondes.
 
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