Well, if we're going by personal experience, chalk one up for the "freedom" side today.
Because of some serious car trouble (it's dead), there is no plausible bus route to get to my job and an Uber would cost me $35 a day. I have no vacation/personal/sick so early in the tenure. There is no workplace arrangement to be had as this is an office with 1,300 people and it's a ruthless, numbers machine that doesn't care. I'm easily replacable if I can't get to work. I'm going to resign on Monday.
On paper, I had it made when I landed this job. A Fortune 100 company with very good benefits and a promising commission structure. Only problem was it was a miserable job. My days were a blur and I was losing my sanity in 3 months. The advertised pay was also exaggerated. In training they advertise 3-4k commission checks, which they attempted to use to put on a spin on the very weak salary. In reality only the top 10% will take home that bigger commission check...by working 60 hours a week and skipping breaks - in other words becoming a goddamn robot. Most others will take home 1200-1500, which is 800-1000 after taxes. Pathetic.
So back to the drawing board...again. Going to just enjoy the holidays with my family and then hit the pavement again in January. Maybe because of the 1 yr emergency fund that I have put away I don't have a sense of urgency to actually stay in these sh*t jobs long, so I job hop. My commitment issues don't extend to just women.
I am really going to try to find work I can be passionate about. These last 3 months I was making a paycheck, but was becoming a zombie. Call me naive, but I do believe life can be more than that. And I'm not saying you have to buy into the life coach scam of
"just quit your job and the money will follow!" or
"the universe will give you x, y, z if you just believe in yourself." You actually have to go find it. But if we're all passionate about something, and jobs exist in those fields, couldn't we find a happy medium?
My passion is travel. It makes me feel alive and masculine because I'm living with a purpose. I even enjoy helping others with their travel plans and usually do it for free for my friends & family. So something like this
https://bootsnall.recruiterbox.com/jobs/fk0hf1t/ would be awesome for me. Not only the nature of the work, but the remote option. It allows me to travel and alleviate my own issues of staying in one place for very long. I could work anywhere with an internet connection.
I put in the application and followed up with the company. The hiring manager said he got 350 applicants, but I looked like I was qualified and he'd reach out if he saw a match. Sadly I don't see many opportunities like this out there. Travel agencies are a dying industry. But this company is legit as I've used them from the customer side.