Do you ever feel like giving up

[Deadly_Ripped]

I know that this isn't really much of a consolation, but you need to remember that these experiences WILL help you appreciate better times when you have them.

It's a lot like really, really bad oral sex. You don't fully appreciate a deep-throat chick until you get some girl treating your meat like it's a baby bottle and she's thirsty.

That's not to say that anyone must receive bad oral sex to enjoy the good oral sex, but it makes you more aware of how good things are when they truly are good. Most people have unrealistic expectations of how awesome their lives will be. The important thing is to improve and to keep striving towards bettering yourself, and good things will eventually happen to you.

It is hard to get motivated when you feel like giving up and you feel like you've already tried everything that you can in order to get your life turned around. Just keep in mind that everyone had bad times in their lives, and that those who work through them eventually get to the good times.

 

[Xanthus]

Oh yeh I dont care or desire to chase women. I just want blojobs as ofen as possible lol...But my real issue is the autism. I cant get a job, I have social issues, I cant do eye contact. I phase out of conversations and concentration. Mentally I am not at all here. And this transfers to wroking life, social life and sex life overall.

Sex is one problem NOT women. Im not really interested in women just sex. Prostitution eases the social aspect of that so is good I guess. However, it costs money and until I get the job/financial side I cant use hookers.

So:

NO social skills/autism= no female interacion/no socialising= no sex

Autsim=no job=no money=no hookers

I see what you're saying. That's the problem with autism. It locks you up to a point where you say F it to everything.

I plan to break out of this in my own way. It's either I let it rule me or I rule it. For your sake, I hope you'll be able to do the same.

There's a lot more to a woman than getting her to fiddle with you below the belt. I mean, just the feel, smell and taste of a woman is worth the effort. You're gonna pass up on all that for only a BJ? No dissing, but you've got to think about the whole picture.

Don't make your Aspergers become a burden. It is possible to not let it take over your life so you can actually live it.

A quote I found while surfing the net.. "Bill Gates, the Microsoft computer billionaire is supposed to have AS. Some other prominent AS-diagnosed individuals include Nobel Prize-winning economist Vernon Smith, electro pop rocker Gary Numan, and Satoshi Tajiri, the creator of the Pokamon franchise."

The good thing about Aspergers is that you can concentrate and piece together whatever you put your mind to and come up with something that would take others months, even years of learning to achieve the same results. Without people like Bill Gates, who had a huge vision, the internet might have not caught on as fast. Almost everyone back then had a computer with Microsoft installed, especially those who used AOL. I only knew a few people who used Mac at that point. Microsoft was ready for you to install in almost any PC you could build. Yeah, Bill has plenty of haters, but he didn't give a sh!t. There's the difference!

Bro, it's time to not give a sh!t. Forget your awkwardness and just forge ahead. It's tough to do, but not impossible. Have you conversed with others who have AS online? Maybe you should find a meetup group and talk with others who are in the same boat. That might help you out in learning ways to combat what you have so you can deal with it better.

Xanthus

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I see what you're saying. That's the problem with autism. It locks you up to a point where you say F it to everything.

I plan to break out of this in my own way. It's either I let it rule me or I rule it. For your sake, I hope you'll be able to do the same.

There's a lot more to a woman than getting her to fiddle with you below the belt. I mean, just the feel, smell and taste of a woman is worth the effort. You're gonna pass up on all that for only a BJ? No dissing, but you've got to think about the whole picture.

Don't make your Aspergers become a burden. It is possible to not let it take over your life so you can actually live it.

A quote I found while surfing the net.. "Bill Gates, the Microsoft computer billionaire is supposed to have AS. Some other prominent AS-diagnosed individuals include Nobel Prize-winning economist Vernon Smith, electro pop rocker Gary Numan, and Satoshi Tajiri, the creator of the Pokamon franchise."

The good thing about Aspergers is that you can concentrate and piece together whatever you put your mind to and come up with something that would take others months, even years of learning to achieve the same results. Without people like Bill Gates, who had a huge vision, the internet might have not caught on as fast. Almost everyone back then had a computer with Microsoft installed, especially those who used AOL. I only knew a few people who used Mac at that point. Microsoft was ready for you to install in almost any PC you could build. Yeah, Bill has plenty of haters, but he didn't give a sh!t. There's the difference!

Bro, it's time to not give a sh!t. Forget your awkwardness and just forge ahead. It's tough to do, but not impossible. Have you conversed with others who have AS online? Maybe you should find a meetup group and talk with others who are in the same boat. That might help you out in learning ways to combat what you have so you can deal with it better.

Xanthus

well off course I got highest maths and physics results in my country and university. I also self taught myself guitar and piano etc...However im kinda fed up studying and learning these days. I overloaded for years and no sex/parties I look back and kinda pi$$ed off tbh.

Anyway I dont feel ya on the women thing...I mean im so bad around people and especially females. I only really ever feel comfortable alone in honesty. A loner but not lonely.

I think these dudes out there ready to give up their life caue they cant get no hot gf need to get a reality check!!!!

I went to Thailand I got the hottest girls there and they treat me like a king. I experienced what its like not only to have a hot gf but a hot gf that treats you like god and I realised this is FUN!!! FUN FUN FUN!!!

BUT it is not a make or break life thing. Really if you cant be happy alone then you are screwed. Learn to be happy alone and then you can even enjoy sex etc...I dont understand why you want to give up on life ebcause you cant get a hot girl lmao...once youve had a gf or hot girl youll realise you wasted a lot of crying time. In fact I guaranee you could have the hottest women right now and you will get bored of her sex wise and perosnailty in 2-3 months easy.

 

[Deicide]

I put a self-imposed "no cold approaching for 2 weeks" asylum on myself, and it's driving me crazy(I'm one week into it now). So, whoever says you want to quit this, has to realize this is biolgical and habitual. I think I'm addicted to cold approaching, and I'm almost always unsuccessful with it, that tells you how this lifestyle extends to your whole being. Still, I'm disappointed with myself because my inner game is about the same as it was a week ago, don't really know how to build it up correctly.
The moral of this is: YOU CAN'T QUIT THIS UNTIL YOU'RE DEAD! But you can give sarging and cold approaching a smaller role in your life if you desire, that's what I'm doing.

 

[DonGorgon]

I've given up on women, it's gotten to the point where I can't stand them. I often wonder if it is possible to wake up one day as a homosexual? If that's possible I hope it happens to me sometime soon. Women for the most part are douchebags.

lol many men have turned gay due to feminism and these terrible women it created and the male over population has given women too many options..

LOLOLOL.. dont turn gay... get some prostitutes if you have to..

 

[nismo-4]

After the women have finished playing hard to get.

For the men in the top 10% of males, the women won't even START playing hard to get!

Some guys say it's better to enjoy your life without women. All men know deep down inside that they want to be loved by a woman and have female companionship. For a guy who's been single for a long time, he sees that everyone around him has a mate but himself, hurting him even more! It's even worse he has to hear a lot of BF/marriage excuses!

That "I'm not looking for a girlfriend/ I don't need a girlfriend" defense you tell your male friends is totally delusional for you. You're bullsh*tting yourself and everybody around knows it, because in reality, it translates into "I can't get a girlfriend!"

I've also heard that if you give up chasing women, they'll start chasing you. Total bullsh*t. They won't unless you're pre-selected, and it HAS TO BE BY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN. That's because women live in the now. You can talk about making money all day, but women want the guy who made it. When they see you as a working man trying to come up, they may give you a head nod or whatever, but when that working man who made it comes by, you're in trouble.

What this PUA sh*t did was give a lot of average men the green light to bother women out of their league, while making people like Mystery rich as hell. Now women in their 60's are tougher to attain! Much more harm then good.

First, pu$$y was overpriced. Now, thanks to the growing number of desperate men, a woman's love is overpriced!

God Damn!

 

[LoneWolf]

For the men in the top 10% of males, the women won't even START playing hard to get!

Some guys say it's better to enjoy your life without women. All men know deep down inside that they want to be loved by a woman and have female companionship. For a guy who's been single for a long time, he sees that everyone around him has a mate but himself, hurting him even more! It's even worse he has to hear a lot of BF/marriage excuses!

That "I'm not looking for a girlfriend/ I don't need a girlfriend" defense you tell your male friends is totally delusional for you. You're bullsh*tting yourself and everybody around knows it, because in reality, it translates into "I can't get a girlfriend!"

I've also heard that if you give up chasing women, they'll start chasing you. Total bullsh*t. They won't unless you're pre-selected, and it HAS TO BE BY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN. That's because women live in the now. You can talk about making money all day, but women want the guy who made it. When they see you as a working man trying to come up, they may give you a head nod or whatever, but when that working man who made it comes by, you're in trouble.

What this PUA sh*t did was give a lot of average men the green light to bother women out of their league, while making people like Mystery rich as hell. Now women in their 60's are tougher to attain! Much more harm then good.

First, pu$$y was overpriced. Now, thanks to the growing number of desperate men, a woman's love is overpriced!

God Damn!

good post.

 

[FortunateSon]

For the men in the top 10% of males, the women won't even START playing hard to get!

Some guys say it's better to enjoy your life without women. All men know deep down inside that they want to be loved by a woman and have female companionship. For a guy who's been single for a long time, he sees that everyone around him has a mate but himself, hurting him even more! It's even worse he has to hear a lot of BF/marriage excuses!

That "I'm not looking for a girlfriend/ I don't need a girlfriend" defense you tell your male friends is totally delusional for you. You're bullsh*tting yourself and everybody around knows it, because in reality, it translates into "I can't get a girlfriend!"

I've also heard that if you give up chasing women, they'll start chasing you. Total bullsh*t. They won't unless you're pre-selected, and it HAS TO BE BY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN. That's because women live in the now. You can talk about making money all day, but women want the guy who made it. When they see you as a working man trying to come up, they may give you a head nod or whatever, but when that working man who made it comes by, you're in trouble.

What this PUA sh*t did was give a lot of average men the green light to bother women out of their league, while making people like Mystery rich as hell. Now women in their 60's are tougher to attain! Much more harm then good.

First, pu$$y was overpriced. Now, thanks to the growing number of desperate men, a woman's love is overpriced!

God Damn!

Spot on, but I couldn't care less.

 

[Mike32ct]

I've also heard that if you give up chasing women, they'll start chasing you. Total bullsh*t. They won't unless you're pre-selected, and it HAS TO BE BY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN. That's because women live in the now. You can talk about making money all day, but women want the guy who made it. When they see you as a working man trying to come up, they may give you a head nod or whatever, but when that working man who made it comes by, you're in trouble.

The entire post is spot on, but I wanted to emphasize this piece. Unless you already made it and/or are top 10%, she doesn't give two sh@ts about your future goals, or your hobbies, or that your too busy living life to chase women.

 

[omkara]

In my experience, once you have F-closed them and they are somewhat emotionally invested in you, is when they will make an effort to maintain the relationship and thus things like NC and being aloof are viable options.

I quit chasing skirts for a while, maybe a month. Eventually I got to the point where I was starting to get jealous of other people and pissed off all the time. So I am back in the game now, and more centered and less dependent on their approval for my sense of self worth. There are some guys who claim to have basically given up on women, they call themselves MGTOW (men going their own way), and they don't seem bitter. They are mostly older guys who have been there and done that. It's not really an option for me though. I am a relationshipy person so it doesn't really make sense not to put in the minimal amount of effort needed to play the game in my usual half-assed manner. Some people are true hermits and honestly don't give a damn, or claim to be, but I'm not one of them.

 

[HappyHarryHardon]

i always feel like giving up but i push myself not to because i really want to find a decent woman to be with in a good healthy long term relationship. even if it's a fairy tale dream, i still hang on to that hope that it will happen to me. not to mention, when you get a taste of even the slightest bit of love, you want it back again.

 

[Megaman XIV]

For the men in the top 10% of males, the women won't even START playing hard to get!

Some guys say it's better to enjoy your life without women. All men know deep down inside that they want to be loved by a woman and have female companionship. For a guy who's been single for a long time, he sees that everyone around him has a mate but himself, hurting him even more! It's even worse he has to hear a lot of BF/marriage excuses!

That "I'm not looking for a girlfriend/ I don't need a girlfriend" defense you tell your male friends is totally delusional for you. You're bullsh*tting yourself and everybody around knows it, because in reality, it translates into "I can't get a girlfriend!"

I've also heard that if you give up chasing women, they'll start chasing you. Total bullsh*t. They won't unless you're pre-selected, and it HAS TO BE BY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN. That's because women live in the now. You can talk about making money all day, but women want the guy who made it. When they see you as a working man trying to come up, they may give you a head nod or whatever, but when that working man who made it comes by, you're in trouble.

What this PUA sh*t did was give a lot of average men the green light to bother women out of their league, while making people like Mystery rich as hell. Now women in their 60's are tougher to attain! Much more harm then good.

First, pu$$y was overpriced. Now, thanks to the growing number of desperate men, a woman's love is overpriced!

God Damn!

Judge nismo, you forgot to add the fact that your game, sense of humor, and personality are all useless if the girl doesn't find you attractive!

This post is otherwise gold, and the part about the PUA sh*t was nothing but net! The more people use this PUA stuff, the more defenses women are developing and using.

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo, you forgot to add the fact that your game, sense of humor, and personality are all useless if the girl doesn't find you attractive!

This post is otherwise gold, and the part about the PUA sh*t was nothing but net! The more people use this PUA stuff, the more defenses women are developing and using.

Thank you kindly Megaman, how could I forget that?

I just had to speak reality.

 

[maine_man]

my gf makes me like giving up sometimes. she is mean

 

[jax871]

What a depressing thread...

Your life is what you make it, always has been and always will be.

Everyone faces different challenges and obstacles.. what defines you as a man is how you meet those challenges. (IE.1. Go out and give life your best shot or 2. complain about how bad your life is to strangers on an internet forum).

For people suffering from depression, try reading the book "the happiness trap".. this book changed my life.