Do you believe in events that someone is trying to tell you something??

[LostbutFound]

As most of you know, I recently went through some stuff with this girl....well in the past 48 hours, some stuff has happened that is making me believe that someone is tellin me somethin...tell me what you think of this....

I went out with these twins last night with my boy (he used to date one and i dated the other) and we went to a bar....the girl I used to date knows this girl that I recently broke things off with...so they all kind of start talking about this girl, and **** they were saying was all stupid and I was like you guys dont even know her so why are you talkin like that....for the rest of that night i was thinking about the girl then...so on the way home I drop my boy off and I go to my house in which I pass the church my mother goes to...

So I say to God to make sure everything is ok...I pray and I say to help me out and get me through this, and if I am to be with this girl, I put it in His hands and take care of it....As soon as I pass the church, this song from Coldplay comes on called "the scientist", which is about starting over a rocky relationship...Now I know you're thinking how do I associate her with Coldplay...well I do because her Uncle manages them...So im like ok, that freaked me out a little but we'll see....

So today, im talking to my friend who is like a sister to me...she would tell me right away without second guessing to ditch a girl or not....I tell her my whole story and tells me to go back to being friends with her, but dont let my feelings take over so much....She got a really good feeling with this girl, basically because she knows whats shes going through....see this girl that i ended things with, i ended because she told me basically that she was still thinking of her ex of 4 years...my friend told me its gonna take a while to adjust (she would know, she was in one for 6 years)....so now im really thinking, FVck it, I got 3 other girls on the side, if its gets screwed up and I cant handle it, ill just leave again and go to them....

So on my way home after the conversation, Im listening to the radio again, and what comes on as soon as I get in, but that song again.....I dont know what that exactly means, but Im the type of person that believes in signs and I think someones tellin me something to not completely throw her away just yet...

This all probably sounded corny, but I dont give a fVck....Anybody else believe in things like this happening for a reason???

 

[golf299]

as humans we often search for signs to confirm what we want to feel/do.

the signs don't matter. the fact that you want them to matter is the point. you obviously want to be with this girl again, so put it in motion.

good luck, mate.

 

[Chipmonkey]

I believe in that **** dude for real.

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by LostbutFound
As most of you know, I recently went through some stuff with this girl....well in the past 48 hours, some stuff has happened that is making me believe that someone is tellin me somethin...tell me what you think of this....

I went out with these twins last night with my boy (he used to date one and i dated the other) and we went to a bar....the girl I used to date knows this girl that I recently broke things off with...so they all kind of start talking about this girl, and **** they were saying was all stupid and I was like you guys dont even know her so why are you talkin like that....for the rest of that night i was thinking about the girl then...so on the way home I drop my boy off and I go to my house in which I pass the church my mother goes to...

So I say to God to make sure everything is ok...I pray and I say to help me out and get me through this, and if I am to be with this girl, I put it in His hands and take care of it....As soon as I pass the church, this song from Coldplay comes on called "the scientist", which is about starting over a rocky relationship...Now I know you're thinking how do I associate her with Coldplay...well I do because her Uncle manages them...So im like ok, that freaked me out a little but we'll see....

So today, im talking to my friend who is like a sister to me...she would tell me right away without second guessing to ditch a girl or not....I tell her my whole story and tells me to go back to being friends with her, but dont let my feelings take over so much....She got a really good feeling with this girl, basically because she knows whats shes going through....see this girl that i ended things with, i ended because she told me basically that she was still thinking of her ex of 4 years...my friend told me its gonna take a while to adjust (she would know, she was in one for 6 years)....so now im really thinking, FVck it, I got 3 other girls on the side, if its gets screwed up and I cant handle it, ill just leave again and go to them....

So on my way home after the conversation, Im listening to the radio again, and what comes on as soon as I get in, but that song again.....I dont know what that exactly means, but Im the type of person that believes in signs and I think someones tellin me something to not completely throw her away just yet...

This all probably sounded corny, but I dont give a fVck....Anybody else believe in things like this happening for a reason???

Everything happens for a reason.

People will deny it, but you and me both know it's true.

 

[LostbutFound]

Thats what im talking about R3N3GAD3.....to make matters even creepier, my very first girlfriend that I keep in touch with went to this psychic....Now I must admit, I dont really believe in all that stuff, but she went and the lady named me out and said mostly what was going on....She said I was very busy and a lot was going on in my life (which is true, 2 grandparents went in the hospital, then this stuff with this girl) and she said that Im not going to be alone much longer....

Like I said, I dont really believe that much in it, but thats just creepy, and whats even creepier is that she went yesterday and told me this wednesday, the day after I ended things with this girl...and I never told my ex about all thats been going on until yesterday....

I dunno fellas, but im getting smacked in the face with signs, I just hope its not wrong, then I'd really feel like crap!!!

 

[squirrels]

No.

Songs can mean many things. You hear what you want to hear.

 

[LostbutFound]

im not really talking about the song, but that her uncle manages the best, thus i think of her, and its very rare for me to hear a coldplay song on the radio....and its not like i was just never paying attention to the radio, because I always look for coldplay on the radio because im a huge fan

 

[Omega]

The pyschic thing I'm not too fond of. I beleive there are alot of gifted people who can forsee future events that COULD occur (if you were to take that path), however, a normal pyschic off the street I would be wary of.

Regardless though, even if "the signs" are wrong, theres still going to be other doors. There's signs around us everywhere, but when we want to see them we will. When your not looking for signs, look for them. You'll notice. Do you ever link fortified events that happened and noticed how they all make a chain, days later?

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

I call these things a COINCIDENCE and NOT FATE.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

A friend of mine called me up yesterday asking for advice. Her fiance recently interviewed for a job and has been really stressing over whether he got it or not. He's been driving himself (and her) nuts about it. Yesterday, she found out that he probably didn't get it, and she wanted to know whether she should tell him or keep it to herself.

I told her that she should tell him, of course, because he deserves to know what's up. Then she asked if she should tell him in person or through an email. I told her that maybe she should just call him up.

She said, "I don't really know what I would say over the phone. It might be kind of uncomfortable."

Did you catch that? She wanted to know if it should be in person or through email... but she didn't know what she would say in a "live" situation... meaning that she had no intentions of telling him in person, either. She was just hoping that my advice would be to tell him in email. I called her on it and she realized that was exactly what she was doing.

The point is that you're the same way, man. You're asking for advice from the universe or God or whatever... looking for signs. But in the end, there's only one answer you want to hear. Now, I don't know that the answer you want is the best answer, but you are definitely seeing what you want to see. If you wanted her gone, you'd see a million "signs" that told you to get rid of her.

Similarly, when I broke up with my fiance, I used to hear that song "Here Without You" all the damn time. It seemed like every time I got in my car, or walked into a place with music, or turned on the radio or music videos... it was "Here Without You". Was that song on any more than normal? Probably not. But when we're in that situation, we tend to be more sensitive to that sort of thing.

 

[LostbutFound]

Yeah, I guess that does make a lot of sense...I guess now Im just reconsidering dropping the girl I did because I knew it wasnt what i really wanted to do, but because of past experiences, i did it out of fear...

I was afraid that maybe this girl would do to me what this other girl did, so i got rid of her before anything like that happened...but deep down inside i guess i really didnt want to let her go, becuase in reality, we never got that far to begin with....I guess now Im just looking for some comfort in deciding that im gonna call her back and see whats up...

I dont know whats gonna happen, but I gotta try...otherwise Im gonna spend a lot of time thinking what if?? and i'd rather say I really tried, if things dont work out, then I have no excuse, I took a chance, and it didnt work....but at least then ill know it wouldnt work

 

[nunyabiznass]

three words for the psychology students out there....... self-fulfilling prohecy.