Do women use the "I'm on my period" as an excuse not to have sex with you?

Robert28

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I've gotten this bs excuse twice from this girl I'm seeing and I'm starting to think it's an excuse because there's no way I can be this unlucky at timing twice in a row. If she's banging someone else then why keep wanting to see me? How do I proceed? Do I just stop seeing her til the sex starts back up or confront her about possibly banging someone else? I think the second choice would make me sound needy as hell but at least then I'd know for sure so I could cut it off with her.
 

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A lot of women don't have regular periods, so there is no way you can know for sure. Birth control really fvcks with it, especially the depo shot. A lot of other health issues can cause irregular periods, too.
 

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Just ask her out a week later. Periods usually last a week or so.
 

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Careful what you wish for, don't call her out on it haha.

A girl I was dating recently gave me the "it's not a good week to have sex, if you know what I mean" line and we hadn't had sex yet after almost a month of dating. She held out for a while.

I thought she was just BSing me, but when we got together that weekend we ended up banging on a Saturday night and she was still on her period. I was like wtf. My sheets were nasty after that. The weird thing is that she knew she was on her period, and I just assumed that she wasn't since she was letting it go that far.

I've never had a girl bang me for our first time when she was on her period.
 

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Depends on the chick & how horny she is for you. My ex wf didn't care....unless it was a "heavy day"

Last gf, 1st time we banged she was but it was a "light" day. She ended up pulling that line quite a bit. If it was a light day we would still go at it tho. I can't think of any of mine that would be totally grossed out, just put a towel down.

I did bang 1 ex on heavy day, yeah that sh*t got messy. She was h*rny as **** sooo.....oh well

Light day....Sure

Heavy day.....BJ or I can wait whatever.
 

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"You period don't matter baby. I used to work for Playtex and am the guy who invented putting strings on tampons. I like to be able to floss after I eat"
 

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When I encounter that line I just say "ok, cool. I'll get a towel" and bang away. Nothing to be afraid of. Its just some blood, that's what showers are for.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Thats crazy ... you can get HIV or Hepatis very easily that way if she is carrier , of course everybody is clean until they get infected ... not worth risk until you made her tested.
 

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Johnnythearrow, live a little my friend. Obviously wear a condom if its a girl you are not exclusive with.

No red tide has stopped me yet. Obviously I prefer a clear day, but I'll play in the rain if I need to. Girls are usually thrilled you are depraved enough to do such a thing. Many boys are afraid or grossed out.
 
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